Am I wrong if I have doubts?

Question

I am straight-forward and try to be responsible and mature in all my dealings with anybody, whatever that case. I`m always fascinated and have always wanted to be a politician one day.

My whole life is dedicated to my ambition and I will do all it takes to achieve my ultimate goal in life.

The thing is, I don`t understand why I have so many doubts in a lot of things. I LIKE making my OWN decisions and hate being `bossed` around by people whom I think are less able than me, and most of the time, luckily the outcome is positive in most cases.

However, the doubts I have whenever I take decisions makes me fear whether I will ever be the person I so am determined to be one day, for the good cause obviously!

This is somewhat like a confession, but I just want some advice from you guys.

Do you think my personality is alright to continue further, or should I give up with the idea of politics?


-Thank You for reading this

I don`t know, it`s part of myself. By the way, I love science and am into it as my main subjects.

But politics is a subject I feel attached to in various ways. I like watching live debates, other parliamentary-based programs, and so much more.......

I even watch biographies of ex-British Prime Ministers, their period in power, Popular MPs of their time, election campaigns etc.....

It`s just a subject that I would like to focus on in addition to my science subjects, which are my main priorities really!

Well said Palmerpath

A few other good answers for me to consider overhere

I`ll try to get those books you`ve recommended to me

Answer 1

I think it is perfectly normal to have some doubts.

I don't believe for a moment that even the greatest of politicians never had any doubts or insecurities... even in their highest roles.

If you didn't have doubts, then I think that would be a time to worry. When we doubt, it keeps us grounded. We don't get too "cocky" then. When we get cocky is when we make big mistakes.

I think you'd be fine to continue onto politics. If it's a passion of yours, move on it; continue with it.

Life is far too short not to be somewhere you really want to be. Remain focused, remain determined. You'll achieve marvelous heights that way.

Good luck to you.

Answer 2

I think what you're asking about is that you lack confidence in your decision-making. I think that it's good to be aware that you can make mistakes - this should ensure that you seek the advice of appropriate people and think things through before coming to decisions. But once you've made a decision and you're past the point of "no return" - eg you've had a child, or booked non-refundable tickets for a vacation - then focus on making the decision right, which means working to make the most of the decision.

So if you have a child, learn all you can about parenting and make the choice to be the best parent you can be. If you're going on vacation, choose to enjoy it.

And another quote that my father told me and made a big impact was this: Greg Chappell - former captain of the Australian cricket team and sporting legend in Australia - retired at a time in his career that many questioned. A few years later he was asked "Looking back, do you think it was the right decision to retire?" And to paraphrase his answer, he said "I made the decision based on the information that I had at the time, which is the only thing that I could base my decision on." So what he was saying is you make the best decision that you can in the circumstances and information that you have to make that decision, then you work on making the most of whatever the outcome is. You generally don't get to go back and make the decision again, so that's all you can do!

I think you're also concerned about where you CAN change your decision, that you'll want to do that. Look, there can be a good argument for changing your mind sometimes (though the US President would disagree with me it seems), and I think with time you'll feel less anxious about making a decision and less worried that you'll get it "wrong". But if you clearly have made an "incorrect" decision, then I think it's courageous to acknowledge that and change course.

Good luck!

Answer 3

First, it's natural to have doubts, no matter what your capabilities and abilities. Not having doubts tends to indicate a certain close-mindedness to the world and events around you, which is ultimately crippling to anyone thinking of a career in public life.

Secondly, you're going to have to understand that you will always be dealing with other people, in life, and especially in politics, and that although some of these people may seem less able than you, they may not only have more knowledge and experience than you, but have insights to share with you that may stagger you with their intelligence and wisdom.

Finally, you need to spend more time thinking about what "the good cause" is. A politician is a public servant, not someone who tries to make the world into his/her ideal. Your ideal may not match the ideals of those you serve. Observe. Listen. Strive to understand. Experience. Empathize. Then see if politics is really what your heart tells you to pursue.

Answer 4

well, it all depends on many things,
you age, your experience, your post relationships with people, etc.
however, this is the answer I learn in my life so far.
1. To avoid feeling unsure, or hesitated, do not depend on your decision only, ask others, you are not the only one in this universe. once you got the right thing did it and do not look back.
2. When you do somthing you'll be unsure the first time, but later, when you do it agian you'll get the trust to do it again.
3. Experience means alot, I did not believe that even in the start of career life, So, in the begining you just need to listen, and see. you will know who is right and who is not, then you will feel the time to speak, and you'll the people to listen because you have the reference to your answers.
4. Belive me! no body is sure about any thing, that is the nature of the society and human being, not sure about god, not sure about decision, So. you just write why you feel doubt, then reply honestly and write down your reply. you will be surprised how many ideas was out of your mind.
5. One important thing, take care, because some people do no like you to be honest with them. telling them the truth, makes them open and unsafe, you can feel that. so think twice, once you feel you break the safety of some person. stop. unless it is somthing agianst honor and remember that we all have mistakes.
6. I always dreamed with the straight forward politician, but it seems this is not possible, to be a politician, you should tell the people what they like to hear, So think twice again, because you need people in your side.
7. Do not feel bad if someone bahaves in bossy way or even if he is a real boss, because one day you will be, and you need people to love you, not to hate your management. To overcome this; listen to your boss or to the person who gives the order, and think what you really want to do; what do you want to get out of the dicussion or the order, sure.. it is not to fight with him. may be it is to solve a problem, then discuss in a polite way with him, and he will follow you. in most cases.

in the end
read the books mentioned hereunder, they are great, and they may change your life as they did with me..

all the best...

Basha

Answer 5

In making such big goals in life sure there is bound to be some doubts about your capabilities and sometimes we are our worst critic, still you seem to have a passion for pursuing a political career, I say go for it, but maybe you can become one that has compassion for the people as well as listening to others opinions without you feeling superior in your thinking that your ideas will always be better. Also don't compromise your morals to get ahead. You can do all it takes just don't do anything it takes to achieve your personal goals.

Answer 6

I think it is normal to doubt yourself sometimes. If you feel that you are indecisive, give yourself good reasons for making the decisions. Why is right? What grounds do you have to do this? Is it based on policy and procedure or only a guess on your part? If you believe that your decisions are sound, then maybe you just need a little more experience to become more sure of yourself. Stand up for what you believe in and believe that you can do it.

Answer 7

I doubt something that should pass incorrect may well be some thing so undesirable that i won't be in a position to stay via it. Now that I even have the main loving companion interior the worldwide, we are able to slice via doubt like cheesecake =). what's solid with doubt? it seems to assist me comprehend my fears, so then i will confront them. Doubt is alongside the path to therapeutic ones fears.

Answer 8

As well intentioned that a politician may be, when one is elected for a first term, he/she will get nothing done without playing ball with the ones already there.
Any resistance by the freshman will result in nothing being granted to his/her state.
It's a game of you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours.

For years, Senator Lyndon Johnson had asked President Roosevelt to build the Pedernales River Project, creating lakes in Austin, TX. He was refused time and time again.
Austin is near Johnson City.
A time came when Roosevelt needed Johnson's power to influence congress on one of his projects.
Johnson agreed, ON ONE CONDITION.

Austin has 5 lakes, created by that project.

Answer 9

Doubt it'll push you forward. I am also an ambitious individual. With a constant vision and dream that I contionusly have. It should make you think about the decesions that you will make or will have to make and all the various outcomes of your decesions. In my dreams I have seen the very worst and the very best possible outcomes of my visions. Be aware of the very worst possible outcomes. You'll become the exact opposite of what you've wanted to be.

Answer 10

From your statement, I foresee a successful political future for you. I also detect your resistance to not be in charge. Your political ambition will gradually erode your existing honesty.
I perceive you are an older teenager with trust issues. Successful politicians are very Machiavellian. What you really are seeking is power over.