My wife and I have protected sex with a condom in the first week on august, she has an orgasim first, then I pull out, throw away the condom and have mine. She's told me that she felt nausiated about a week after but it went away. Now, we just got done having sex and when she used the toilet paper she said there was a small amount blood on it. I did some research and read there's something called implatation. My wife's period is due to come around in about 5 days, she's getting some acne patches and we've taken two preg. tests in the last two weeks which have all come out negative. I'm trying to find out what are the odds of her being pregnant (even if we use a condom AND pulled out when I had an orgasim), and if these are signs that she is. Please help!
P.S. She isn't on birth control.
2007-08-17 08:35:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The last pregnancy test we took was two days ago. It was negative.
2007-08-17 08:36:58 · update #1
One thought I came up with for her feeling sick about a week after was because she was taking (2) advil right before bed on an empty stomach for her tooth. I thought that this might be giving her an upset stomach when she woke up. The recommended dosage is (1) on usually a full stomach.
2007-08-17 08:41:28 · update #2
When I eventually do do my "thing", it's some where other then inside of her. In fact, it never comes in contact with her.
2007-08-17 08:47:43 · update #3
Is that the ONLY time you had sex in the last month? Do you always use that form of birth control? (condoms and pulling out before ejaculation) I would say that if you are consistently using this method, it's highly unlikely that she is pregnant. However, it is definitely possible as it only takes ONE sperm to fertilize an egg (got that all you risk takers?). The acne can easily be a symptom of an upcoming menstrual cycle, so I wouldn't worry too much about that. I think you're safe.
More importantly, there is an easy way to chart when her body is fertile and when it isn't. You two should be thinking about natural family planning if pregnancy is a concern. That way, you'll know when it ISN'T possible for her to get pregnant, and avoid having sex on the days that it is. She can do this by learning the differences in her cervical mucous for the duration of her cycle. The mucous changes throughout the cycle due to hormones. The only equipment she needs to do this are two clean fingers OR toilet paper works well, too. I've provided a link below.
Best of luck!
2007-08-17 08:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know that condoms aren't completely fool proof but it doesn't seem to me like she is pregnant. But that doesn't mean it's not possible! I usually didn't start feeling nausea until just before my period was supposed to start. Then I would get the missed period and the positive HPT. The bleeding could possibly be from deep penetration. If her cervix was soft from ovulation, and you penetrated too deep, sometimes it can irritate the cervix and cause a little bit of bleeding. This had happened to me before. I would definitely wait a few days and take a HPT. If it comes back negative, and her period still hasn't started, call her doctor to find out what's going on. Good luck!
2007-08-17 15:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, I'm not a doctor, but I would say that it couldn't have happened that quickly. If she was due to have her period, there could have been any number of reasons why there was only a little bit of blood. Stress can cause a woman to be late, change in diet and exercise. If the tests said negative, then I'm sure she is not pregnant. If you are worried though, have her visit a physician to find out if she is. If you are not trying to get pregnant, birth control would definitely regulate her periods.
2007-08-17 15:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah that's so cute how involved you are. There is no way of us knowing but given the circumstances it is quite possible she is. I would say wait another week or so and try testing again if she does not get a normal period. If in 5 days she just spots as oppose to a regular cycle still administer the home pregnancy test.
2007-08-17 15:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by nicki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is late, then take another test... Sometimes the tests don't work until she is late.. Meaning it might be too early to tell.. Also, the acne cold be because she is getting ready to start her period.. I never had acne with my period until a couple of months ago.. So if she has never had acne like that with her period, she might now.. Good luck and I hope this helps!
2007-08-17 15:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the doctor. If her period is expected in five days, you are ABLE to find out by taking a test, it might make you feel better hearing the results from a doctor.
2007-08-17 15:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Erica M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a planned parent hood near you, and if you absolutely don't want for this to happen, use safer sex, have her on some type of birth control, and you keep your condom on and not do the pull out thingy. if it is okay then stop worrying it will happen when it happens. If it has happened then congrats to you.
2007-08-17 15:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, but I highly doubt it. She was probably bleeding from just having sex. Don't waste your money on the pregnancy tests yet. Wait til she is actually late for her period. Too much stress. Good Luck!
2007-08-17 15:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Roz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are still testing too early. Most tests (even the ones that say different) will not show a positive until you are a day or more late.
the bleeding can be a sign of implantation, or it can be nothing.
2007-08-17 15:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chill out and see what happens in 5 or 6 days.
2007-08-17 15:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Flatpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋