I have just witnessed this woman ask her bf to marry her/..what do you think about the woman asking?
and he said no right way ...
It was an odd thing to witness.
2007-08-17 07:24:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
lol omgosh that woman probably was humiliated. This was in a public place I take it? I used to think if my boyfriend doesn't ask me I'll ask him but I don't think like that anymore. I want him to ask me.
2007-08-17 07:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's certainly nothing wrong with that. its only odd because we dont see it too often and the man being the one proposing is kind of like the tradition. but don't get me wrong, i would never propose. id ask a guys out but proposing is a completely different matter. and even if I were to propose, i would only do so under the circumstances that i know for sure that the guy wants to marry me. but then again, if he wants to marry me then how come hes not proposing? i think that means that he's a coward and that not good...
2007-08-17 14:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to propose to my boyfriend, just because I would like to set the whole thing up. But I'm traditional and my boyfriend would never allow it. He feels the same way, that the man should be the one. I don't have a problem with the woman proposing if her man doesn't have an issue with it, power to her.
2007-08-17 14:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by Haylsinator 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's all that wrong, but I think if the man doesn't ask...he's usually not ready to get married. As a man, I would ask a woman to marry me if I knew she was the one. I think usually and I use that term loosely, that women want to get married before the man is ready.
2007-08-17 14:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Valentino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it showed both you and her that she was the one who was willing to continue the relationship on something permanent-like marriage-and thought that he was the right one for her. She was in control of what she wanted in her life and so she decided to not to wait for him and see if he was willing to accept.
But, because he said 'No', she must realize that he was not on the same page as she thought he was and thus, made the situation seem awkward.
So, I hope that young lady said, "Well, then, there is no need to continue this relationship then, is there?" and moved on.
The odd thing was not her proposing; the odd thing(cold or sad, depending on who you talk to) was that he said 'No'. And, he did it right away.
2007-08-17 14:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything fundamentally wrong with it, but I wouldn't do it. It's not really important to me who asks, and since men are sort of brought up believing that they're to be the ones to propose, it may be much more important to them. I wouldn't want to risk taking that away from someone.
2007-08-17 14:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by McLovin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well thank God that is over with no?
LOL
Very few guys like that despite what any libbers might think...and secondly...her rushing it and his accepting doesn't guarantee happily ever after....just a rush to the divorce lawyer that much sooner.
2007-08-17 14:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awkward.
2007-08-17 14:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow... that must have really sucked! I'm kind of old-fashioned, I think the guy should propose. When a girl does it, it seems desperate, when a guy does it, it seems sweet.
Just my opinion.
2007-08-17 14:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
why shouldn't she ? sorry the lady took the relationship to
be more serious than he. Course maybe he ain't ready yet.
Happens the other way around too.
2007-08-17 14:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋