Have you ever seen an attractive fat person before?

Question

I don't mean someone who's kind of chubby or "thick".I mean a person who has a genuine weight problem.
I hope nobody thinks that I'm a weightest for asking this question.

Answer 1

Rosey O'donnell is damn sexy.

Answer 2

I think more people would think "what is his point is asking this question" rather than thinking your a "weightest" (whatever that is)??

All different kinds of people who come in all shapes and sizes are attractive for different reasons. Is it that you've found someone who is quite heavy attractive and are embarrassed about that? Or don't want to be attracted to them and are looking for excuses not to be? Or perhaps a friend is attracted to and/or dating someone heavy? I can't think of any other reasons you would ask this question - or it really wouldn't matter to you.

The bottom line is: we all have different visions of beauty. However, as the age old saying goes ... "Beauty is only skin deep ..." If you aren't attracted to someone's personality and character ... then their looks aren't going to last long. As you get older conversation is more important that someones looks ... because everyone's look fade as they age.

I have seem many beautiful, heavy people. Of course, I tend to look at their face and into their eyes because that tells you a lot about a person. Their size and/or shape does not. At least not about the qualities that MATTER.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ... what is beautiful to you may not be to me ... but what difference does it make? If you see someone and instantly find beauty ... then size has little to do with it!
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Answer 3

That's an insult to all overweight people. You're saying that there aren't any attractive overweight people out there. That means you're calling fat people ugly. I am seriously offended by this question. It's mean enough to call someone fat, but it's even more mean to call that same person ugly.

Answer 4

Personality wise, yes.. It's generally not the weight I find unattractive. It's the bad habits that the person keeps repeating that made them heavy in the first place i find unattractive. However, some people have genuine metabolic disorders. My friend Jerilynn doesn't hardly eat anything and she still keeps the weight.

Answer 5

Yes I have, many times in fact. But quite a few of them have lost the weight now and they look really good. There was this guy in high school who was obece but had a very cute, handsome face.

Answer 6

Absolutely. There are many men and women who find fat women and fat men attractive. My wife (350) and I (550 plus) find each other very attractive. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and not for others to judge.

Answer 7

I have seen some women that would have looked good if they had lost a lot of weight. You know the pretty in the face women.

Answer 8

hi, i'm Mary and that i'm fairly 12 years previous. i'm additionally comparable such as you. fat, specific, i'm fat too. i attempted each thing yet not something replaced my seems. i ultimately gave up. yet, i will declare that- 'i'm unable to win if i don't LOSE it.'

Answer 9

Oh yea! As a former fat person, I can testify that the only thing many of us had was our "cute face." We were never sexy or anything to die for, but everyone has that "huggably soft" friend who you just love to pinch:P

Answer 10

I have a genuine weight problem and I think I'm pretty darn cute! I've been told I look like Trisha Yearwood. ;-)

Answer 11

Yes, My mom and a nurse I know, actually make that several nurses I know. I guess it's more personallity than size that makes a person attractive.