Something strange I noticed the other day and just wanted to ask around...
Does anyone else sometimes kinda "flip over" when they're drunk or on certain... substances? I was at a party the other day and was fairly out of it, and for some reason I kept staring at girls breasts. While for most guys this might be normal, for me its slightly worrying...
Anyone else have this problem, or am I just an idiot?
2007-08-17 06:22:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It just seems very odd to me because I am definitely not bi. It only happens when I'm very far gone.
2007-08-17 06:32:10 · update #1
Drugs and booze reduce your inhibitions. Maybe the real side of you was coming out and you're just repressing your true nature?
Could you be living a lie?
2007-08-17 06:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Similar thing happened to a buddy of mine a while back. He was pretty loaded after a night out drinking. Was out with his "fag-hag" and they ended up back at her place. He reports that he ended up "making out like crazy" with her (denies any sex took place). When I posed the possibility that he may have a little bit of BI tendencies, he quickly informed me again that he was gay and his preni would "never be in a v@g!n@". I tease him about this all the time now. He's cute when he pooches his lips out and sulks. LOL
2007-08-17 13:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lon E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not an idiot. Breasts are beautiful. Just because you look at them doesn't mean anything. We are all on a spectrum between full homosexual and full heterosexual. Of course, as a lesbian, I may be biased about the breast thing.
Don't worry. You are fine. But keep your partying down to a dull roar, eh?
2007-08-17 13:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Auntie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No your not an idiot. It's normal. Same as with me, who as a straight guy, occasionally gets "curious" about being with a man. Doesn't mean anything or that I will ever act upon it. Just that I'm not honophobic like you are probably not "straigtaphobic"
2007-08-17 13:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by tamarack58 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than one straight woman friend of mine has observed that gay men are as equally obsessed with boobs as straight men - it's just that we don't bone up over them.
You're not becoming latently hetero under the influence - you're just being a male :D
2007-08-17 14:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Clint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol and the mood-altering type drugs destroy a person's credible perception and create false feelings.
Suggestion:
Try and notice if you stare at women's breasts when you are sober?
2007-08-17 14:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you're still gay. Never trust a high feeling, baby!!!
No offense, lesbians, I'm sure boobs are very fun, and I'm still in love with Kat Von D. :)
2007-08-17 13:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by gochefs (Geo) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, you were just looking...it is ok...you don't have any...it is just curiosity.. When you are a little dunky poo and coked out/high....you think everything is interesting!
2007-08-17 13:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lil_bit_witty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of it, and seen it happen, but I do not understand it at all.
2007-08-17 15:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by open minded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELCOME TO THE STR8 SIDE MY BROTHA. YOU CAN'T DENY GIRLS ARE HOT. I WAS LOOKING AT THIS BALCK GIRL'S *** YESTADAY AND THAT **** WAS ON SLAMMM!!
2007-08-17 13:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 9⤋