Last quesion for the night - I'm tried of LiFe are you?

Question

I don't want to live no more, i don't see a point and i don't want my future kid to live in ....... how life is like... what about you?

This is not a negative thought, this is the fact that i will face in the future...

Answer 1

i've felt that way for the past 3 years...we are forming a club...membership is cheap as the membership keeps dwindling...

Answer 2

I understand, I cant stand life at all. There are so many obsticals that I have faced and more that I am going to face and I dont know how much more I can take. I am so unhappy with my life and this world. I think about the future constantly and it scares me so much, what is to come? I just wish that food wasnt such a big part of my life and for anyone who doesnt have an eating disorder then you wouldnt know what I am talking about. Writing use to be my escape and now I cant even seem to do that anymore. As I get older my life seems to be going further down the drain. I thought at one point that I was coming back up but I was just stuck. I am being taken advantage of at work and yet I am still referred to as the new kid which hurts my feelings so much. I do so much at my job and the only one that thanks me is my brain washing boss whom I hate. I just am so confused as to why life is filled with so much pain. I dont know what to do anymore. I have become so lost in thought that I hate to sleep at night but love to during the day because then that way I dont have to see anyone. I even forgot my therapy appointment yesterday and I have been going for a year now the same day and time. I just dont know what is going on and I am only 17 and feeling so much. I say to my mom life is not fare and she says who said it was suppose to be and that doesnt help. Getting by each day is hard and even harder if you have no one who understands you.

Answer 3

Lost my best answer! - but life is it's own point. It's an adventure. And adventure by definition isn't always comfortable, and often alarming. I tried to commit suicide when I was a kid in World War 11, and I'm glad I failed. Other generations have confronted and endured horrors throughout history - and their ingenuity, courage, and survival brought life to us. We owe it to them, and all to come, to use our life well - which includes making life better for others. Certainly right now is a bad time, with population explosion beyond what Earth can sustain, Climate Change, and other issues which I've fought unsuccessfully for decades. As Pablo Cassals said "The situation is hopeless. We must take the next step". So I'm concerned for my grandchildren and their generation, and believe the decision not to have children, or to limit them, is responsible and sensible. But however it goes, it's also sensible to value the unique potential of humanity, and our own uniqueness within it - and that is motivation enough to work for a better world, anyway we can; and that can give our own life purpose and meaning. Go for it! What have we got to lose except life itself? And it's better to lose one's life in trying, than to lie down and die giving up. Self respect is a wonderful thing to earn. Or so I believe.

Answer 4

True. I have a life, but the goals are quiet different and the means don't seem to match or matter as much as they use to.
It's not like a depression where all is lost or helpless, it's more like a good book and you want to choose the ending/out come with feeling of content, pride, satisfaction, for the choices you've made in living.
To continue is like stretching out the good parts of the chapter which only takes away the best part of the story.

Answer 5

I don't think that your thought is a negative thought, it's just the truth for you. I understand how you feel because I feel that way also, yet I don't want to die. Life is very meaningless to me right now. I have no interest at all, which is hard because you think, well what's the point of living if I'm not trying to get somewhere. I've learned that we try to fill that empty feeling that all of us have within ourselves with lots of stuff. Mostly outward stuff, life a job, material things, etc., but if you really look at what's real, that empty feeling never goes away. It's always just hidden underneath the surface of stuff. I've been learning about myself over the past 3 years and I realize that I've never changed inside. I strive for meaning, for happiness, for security, for joy, but inside I never reach that place. It's kinda crazy but it's been an eye opener for me. All I can say to you is to be honest with yourself and don't think that you have to love life. Who knows, maybe you will one day, but right now you don't and that's all that matters. I'm not any religious person. I've been through all of that and it's the same as anything else. Trying to find some place in life where you feel ok, whether it's believing in something or living according to some ideal, but you never get there. I do not reject the idea of God. I've just given up the fact of holding on to this idea of God and also of what life is suppose to be. Because truthfully, I really don't know. I've only been following what others have told me. I'm kinda learning within myself what life and God is. It's extremely difficult though, because there's nothing to hold on to and our world and neither myself are built to live like that. We follow ideas in order to be comfortable in life. We never think of discovering for ourselves what this thing called life is all about. And I guess I'm on that journey. Yet, it's really not a journey. It's just living.....

Answer 6

Tiring of life is understandable. Every one gets weary.
Not wanting to live is despair and is unwise.
Being the positive force within your sphere of influence is a grand purpose.
Even in the darkest of days children are a blessing and the hope of the future.
Bringing into this world and raising kindhearted conscientious people is an honorable destiny.

Answer 7

There is a point to every ones life though we can not see that now.
Do not think of what your future kid, the kid does not exist now.
You must make the best of it and move on, try to any way.
The end will come in a blink of an eye.

Answer 8

No, that is a negative thought. you create your own future.

people dwell on what they dont want therefore it appears time and time again.....

The law of attraction says you attract like a magnet what your thinking and feeling about.

watch the secret..its a good positive thing. here is the 1st 25 minutes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8

It works 100%.

and why would it not?

1st step is having gratitude for all the good things in your life, thus focusing on positive things that make you happy.

2nd is asking and defining your goals, believing in yourself and having joy that it is coming.

These are all essential in becoming succesful.

it's you becoming positive and being grateful for what you have...starting to shift your energy etc...

it could come to you in a million forms...perhaps you get a raise, a part time job, go into a venture with someone, it takes time also..most people fail because they simply give up...

it is VERY rare for a very happy, positive person that gets off thier butt and works hard to fail.

Answer 9

I don't know if you need professional help to overcome depression. Many people get tired of life and its problems BUT they don't get tired of living. There is a difference.
You need to make a point to be around positive people and you need to be more active so you can change the things you don't like.
You have to "remember how to fight".
I am sure there is something positive in this world that you can do to make it a better place.

Answer 10

you must be very, very old indeed to have experienced all the wonders of this planet to the point they bore you. It must be wonderful to have done everything that is possible for a man to do. I envy you all these experiences, but I will do the best I can to experience them all for myself, then I might go back for seconds, then thirds and fourths. Life is a party man, live it up, and the life of the party, your future child, might just be the one to make a difference to this planet, he/she will definately make a difference to YOUR life.

Answer 11

yes i'm tired of life because many unhappy and upsetting things has happened to me in the past 2 years. I'm still lloking for that something to look forward to. Alas, no matter how hard i try i don't see anything ahead worth living for