I met him in a chatroom and I aint seen a pic of him but we are together online for around 6 months now. Were from different parts - he in Seattle and me in Texas. He says he was married but divorce now.He gots kids but aint send pics of them either. He called me once from a private number. I gots no way to contact him but just email and chat.He say he love me, I love him. But I feel like he lying. What does y'all think?
2007-08-17 03:17:27 · 16 answers · asked by Confuso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you think he is married still just using me for fun?
2007-08-17 03:20:34 · update #1
So, you're in love with Mr Invisible?!
You know, I couldn't let my feelings develop for so long for someone I have no picture of or no idea what he looks like.
Besides, you can't contact him, he calls you on a private number, so you can't phone him back? He has children but won't show you their pictures, well, if he doesn't show you his...
This guy thinks that you're as gullible as they come and is having a good time at your expense.
You're having a relationship with yourself.
2007-08-17 03:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you love a person you don't even know? This is all a fantasy. If the guy was really single you would have met already. Your a pen pal. Please get out there and find a guy you can have a normal relationship with instead of a computer romance. Isn't there any available men in Texas?
2007-08-17 10:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hiding something from you for sure, and you two are not in love. There's WAY too much you cannot know about one another for anything like love to have grown...you may dig the person you think he is, and he digs the person he thinks you are, but that person doesn't really exist. What you know about one another is what the other person has chosen to share, and the rest is what you've made up based on what you'd like that person to be...think about it, you think he may be cheating on someone and yet you claim to love him? Puh-leez!
Find a local and build a real relationship...this guy is having some online fun.
2007-08-17 10:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i definitely think he is playing you. any man or woman, that has kids and has been seriously dating someone would share pics of their kids and themselves. i am quite fine with people meeting on the internet and dating, however, this is not the case. you don't have a way to contact him besides through the comp, which means that he does not want you to be able to call him or speak to him unless he wants you to. he is playing on his terms only, and unfortuantely you are going along with it. just leave him alone, because i guarantee you he is still married and living at home with his wife and kids.
2007-08-17 10:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lin B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey may be divorced, but, may have a girlfriend he lives with or she lives near him. That is my guess. Hmmm. I would be sending him emails and messages throughout the day so this girl/wife can be warned that he has flings on the side! I hope she finds out about this! and I hope you find a better man...good luck! ditch this dude...
2007-08-17 10:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Ladylady...if you don't have his phone number and he has only called you once...he either doesn't love you...or he is married. This is a fact.
2007-08-17 10:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he isn't making it a "real" relationship, is he? It's not a real relationship, it's an on-line one. That's play time, not real life. And if he does have a wife, she would be pissed if she caught the on-line thing. He's hiding his whole life from you, so he could be anything.
2007-08-19 14:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, after 6 months if you still don't have a phone number for him or haven't seen each other yet. Yep he married.....Sorry Hun.
2007-08-17 10:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You met him in a chat room, you have not met him yet, you have no way to contact him. Do you really need us to tell you what you already know?
2007-08-17 10:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mama~peapod 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how do u love someone u only talk to online????think about that,,you need counseling or a psychologist, drugs, lots and lots of med drugs
2007-08-17 10:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by amayseng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋