So, there was this guy who was really interested in me from school. He would sit next to me in class. He would talk to me. He would wait for me after class. it was obvious he liked me, and I like him too. I knew he was gay and he knew I was too.
So, last week, i dropped hints twice to give him my email to keep in touch with him, and he was evasive about it - he didn't acknoweldge it. Then right before we left, I offered him my email again just to help him with an assignment he missed last week. He said he was "okay with the terms" and that he had the professor last semester.
So last night was our last class, and he finished the final before me, and then he said bye as he was leaving, and I asked if he was "leaving?" and he said "yeah" - and he left. he didn't wait.
Why would this boy, be interested in me all semester - and then deny my email, and then leave without wanting to keep in touch?
Was this boy involved already you think? That's what I think. i am not sure.
2007-08-17 03:02:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It was an all of a sudden 180 on his part. But, he still seemed interested, but, would not take my email or wait after class.
What's up with this guy being interested, and then not taking the next step?
2007-08-17 03:03:53 · update #1
But, I liked him grrrr!!!!
Is that what guys do when they are not single when they are interested in somebody else?
2007-08-17 03:11:09 · update #2
No...he knows who he is. That was not it. He knew who I was too, and he clung to me.
2007-08-17 03:27:36 · update #3
I think you TOTALLY hit the nail on the head. I think if he's obviously gay, or if you knew for sure he was gay, and he was cuttin' eyes at you for the whole semester - he was NOT single.
Not that it matters anyway - the class is over, he's gone and the world is your oyster. :) XOXO
2007-08-17 03:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by gochefs (Geo) 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he met someone else while flirting with you? Or maybe you are right that he was already taken. I know I'm nice to people without intentions of anything romantic happening. could that be the case here too? But since he said something about being okay with those terms. I would say he was probably involved with someone and should have just come out and said that to you.
2007-08-17 10:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jyse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u mentioned that u were in class so the first thing that entered my mind is maybe he was accused of being gay by a friend and now he is trying to show he isnt. Or it could be he was involved and he found out bout u.
2007-08-17 10:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Pres 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess will never know. One thing is for sure, When there's a will, there's a way and for what you are telling us, he just run away.... Next time try to get his email address instead. That way you'll be in control of the "keeping in touch" situation and if he doesn't write back, hunt him dow and shooting like a dog.
2007-08-17 10:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by xy_cosmoboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have been in a relationship or started talking to someone else in that last few days before class ended. That stinks that stinks that he would do that though.
And for that so-far-in-the-closet-man that called you those ugly names....dude get a life and come out already its okay you wont get beat with the same bat that you beat all the others with! MORON!
2007-08-17 10:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda U 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I answered your other question about this first without reading this one. Gochefs nailed it on the head. He was flirting with you because he thinks you're nice looking but wasn't going to take it further.
2007-08-17 11:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Clint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur soooo romantic
2007-08-17 12:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by tasty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋