I know when an employer sees that I haven't had a job in five years they are going to wonder whats up with me. The truth is I have one year sober now. I used to be an addict that was why I was not working now that I am clean I really want to start over. I just don't know who will give me a chance even though I am smart and capable and you couldn't tell by looking or talking to me that my past was what it is. Is there anyone else who has had this happen to them I could really use some advice PLEASE HELP
2007-08-17 02:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by This Little Game We Play 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Depending on what kind of treatment program you were in [to include AA or NA] there should be people with longer sobriety who have had the same experiences that you can get advice and job leads from...if your sobriety is what you treasure most, then you got it the right way--i.e., not just to work off DUI's or court-related probation deals [getting a court card signed, right?]. By now, after a year, you should know a lot of people from 'around the tables' and they'd be the best resource. Who knows, there might be an oldtimer running a business who would give you a job--but you have to do some footwork and networking with the kind of people you don't have to explain stuff to. One of my buddies got a great job just this way, in fact...an oldtimer he met at his home group took a chance on him, and it worked out great for all concerned. Take all the advice you can get from the oldtimers...network, be open & honest, and be willing to start just about anywhere.
2007-08-17 02:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by constantreader 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.... well i've never had a drug problem, so i cant imagne what that's like... (though ive had friends who've done it). but congrats for being sober! keep up the good work!
Um yeah whoever told you start on the bottom --> their answer is crap. You dont have to start there, but thats all you may find right away. The job market is tough even for people who've had consistent work history. Trust me, i know. I've been turned down for dozens of jobs i'm overqualified for. *senseless* but it's difficult to find a decent job these days.
Just be confident, and think about things your good at that you could apply to the job force. Explore ALL angles and try for ALL jobs, as many as you can!!
When you go in for an interview, make sure you look presentable, and not scruffy or anything, Be confident. Do not lie about your past, but.... you dont have to say, "oh i wasnt working for five years because i was a coke-head or what ever it was." Just tell them you had personal/ family issues that needed attending to, (or something like that) and that's why you havent worked in so long. you don't have to go into the gory details! (but dont lie, never do that. it is unnecessary!)
By LAW they cannot hold it against you if you are a recovering addict...... thats discriminatory; and so long as it doesnt apply to your job functions in question, it is irrelavant.
Since you have a computer, go to places like job.com monster.com etc and check out to see whats available.
Also, put a resume together. IF you struggle with that, maybe you've a friend that can help you with it?
Don't lose hope, be confident, and stay focused. I am sure you will find something soon. AND if all you can get right away is a crap job, then take it, and do your best as this will show future employers youre serious in your work ethic.
Good Luck to You. I hope things work out!!!
2007-08-17 10:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by sugarplumlulu™ ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you start again at the bottom. Look for jobs that not many other people want - gas stations, fast food, laborer, etc., and work your way up. You've seen what life can be like when you mess up, so you know how important it is to keep sober, keep clean, and work hard.
Good luck!
2007-08-17 09:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with part time work, perhaps at places who won't mind about your lack of experience (food service, retail, manual labor, etc). Try temp agencies (Adecco, Manpower, Labor Ready in my area), who can place you in a position you are suited for. Finally, investigate volunteer opportunities helping children, animals, and if your therapist/counselor recommends it, other recovering addicts. Make sure you make you make your health your first priority, and you will succeed in the workplace. Congrats!
2007-08-17 09:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by oj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's luck and who you know. Start there. I have my MBA and have never had a problem with substance abuse or the law and applied to hundreds of jobs. I work as a grocery store clerk. Good luck.
2007-08-17 10:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great Friends,
Get some Counseling
Go Back to school
Try a new activity.....
2007-08-17 09:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doctor then job center
2007-08-17 11:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by stefan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋