makes me feel like they dont love my baby!?

Question

Hi Iam 20 years old have a 6 month baby, my husband is 23, anyway I know my husband for 2 years now, we lived together for about 3 months then he moved in with me, the thing is that I wanted to met his mother after we knew each other for a while! but she was always making excuses, so I stop, then I got pregnant when I was 3 months she finally said to go over to her house when we got there I was nervous, we seat and eat everybody in the table were talking but they never said one word to me, not even how was my pregnancy going, I felt pretty offended I went home thinking that they didnt want me, I told my
husband how I felt he told me that hes mom changed since she got married to another man, his step- father and that all she does is listen to him, and never care about him anymore! since my daughter was born they havent give her a thing! and she's her first grand daughter, then his step fathers son lives there with his GF there so fake,my mother in law talkingabout me with the gf

I can not believe how they're, they always want to come between this marriage, they think that Im the bad person, cause whenever is the weekend and I dont feel like going to there house they think that I control him, but the truth is that my husband never wants to go there if Iam not ther with him, He loves me more then anything and I do too, she. The sep father has son and my mother in law is always talking to him so nice and to his Gf too, she treat him better then my husband and she talks to her more then me! everytime I go there I go thinking that things will be better, Im always nice to them, but they just dont want to open up
with me! now I dont even want to see them anynmore, only my mother in law cause I believe she has the right to see her grand dauhgter but the other people I dont care! Do you think I should see them, after them not giving my dauhter a thing?

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they never want to comet to my house cause we live with my parents, and what I hate about my husband is that he never talks to her, he never tell her how he feel after all this years, they're just too
apart from each other! I dont know what to do! Help me please!

Answer 1

You are in the middle.I have been there.My mother-in-law did not like me because she thought I broke up his first marriage,and prevented them from getting back together.She was wrong but still liked his first wife because of the grandchildren.My life was hell.For the first 10 yrs she hated me,but slowly as my husband excelled at his job,and we began to buy our home,and her son became successful at any thing he tried,and the grandchildren began to tell her.I was the reason,and they loved me.She got ill.I took care of her.moved her into our home.Before she died she told me I was the best thing that ever came into there lives.Ever little dog has its day! I used to get hives when we would go over to her house for supper.Hang in there,Stand by your man.

Answer 2

Any guy who walks out on the lady that is carrying his baby, is a jerk. I don't blame you for the way you are feeling. Tell him you need some time to think and really do some thinking and if you still feel the same way as you are feeling now in a weeks time. Tell how you feeling and why you feeling that way. And tell him that he can always be there for his child but you two just won't work out. Good luck.

Answer 3

Sounds like you should forget about her.
Pretty simple eh?

Answer 4

too late you're stuck now.