How should one react when u feel everything is going against u?

Answer 1

I think the best way is to lie back for a while to gather inner strength and self-esteem.... and then pounce with the single-minded idea of taking the bull by the horn... it can't get worse...... if you thought it could, you would not have been feeling so down!!

More often than not, courage produces results beyond capability and expectations.

Answer 2

Resilience Can Only Get You So Far, It's Called The Bounce Back Ability Factor. Some Times You Just Need To Get Away From It All For A While And Recharge Your Batteries Darl. Never Be Afraid To Show Emotion, It Doesn't Mean Your Weak. If You Have A Way To Let Off Steam, Be It Power Walking, Swimming, Kick Boxing Or Whatever Helps!
I Once Had A T-Shirt With A Mouse Sticking Two Fingers Up And It's Tongue Out In The Face Of A Diving Owl Talons Extended. The T-Shirt Read "Sometimes Total Defiance Is The Only Option!"

Answer 3

Looking at your profile you shouldn't be asking this question, as you are strong and you are the solution!!!

But since we all can't be perfect all of the time you can try, crying until you feel better, go for a walk and enjoy the beauty of creation, sit down with a large supply of alcohol and quietly get drunk, shrug your shoulders and say, "That's life, tomorrow is another day." Treat yourself to a meal or other treat, or if you want to be really clever think, 'what positive things can I learn from this.'

Answer 4

Isn’t that a very unique moment endowed with most powerful sensations, and with realisation? That there is a very powerful and significant world all around you, that just would like to have few words with you, an act that might turn out to be in your own favour. It is very common among common people that they learn to take things for granted, and as for life, they get so awfully used to living it badly, in mundane fashion, that hardly anything appears to happen to spur them into quality of an active life, nothing seem to emerge upon the surface of their ‘dead calm’ as they just lie still lost in a lethargic and consuming sense of leisure and false comfort day after day. Where the fact is the more people die of boredom than due to conflicts, confrontations, arguments and controversies, it is good to have a mind that thinks, feels and jumps into action - a healthy mind would learn to feed upon situations by building alongside them instead of tiring itself working against them.

If is, however, normal in the mind to induce mild paranoia when going get tough in life, but you can always get to known things that bother you, and when we known things we see them from the rest, we identify things that we need to focus upon. It is always helpful to work towards things you like instead of running away from things that you dislike - to be able to see things clearly is to be able to take them into the grasp of your mind, try this on fear that is notoriously sporadic and anti-reason.

And finally a quote – in your fight with the world, always back the world - that way you will never lose and always grow stronger and wiser.

Answer 5

Your experience of reality mirrors the contents of consciousness. Ask yourself, what must I 'believe' - that I am not aware of - that is the cause of this. The learned ego is a myriad of conflicted thoughts and feelings based on erroneous beliefs. Start sorting them out, tracing them to their earliest source and reframing the belief in the light of reason. NLP offers a good methodology.

Answer 6

Just take things calmly. Be in a position where you can step back and look at things from a different perspective. Write down your problems and see if you can work them out by doing the most difficult first.

Answer 7

Don't get angry and don't get bitter. I've been there, done that and it's not pretty. Just cry. Try to think of people who are in worst situations than you. Have some fun with a friend. Get a friend to tell you all the wonderful things about you to boost your confidence a little.

Answer 8

I speak to my friends, wife about the things not for ideas but I need a sympathetic listener and see a movie or listen to music

Shout when I'm alone very loud

And start afresh.

Answer 9

Don't react. Let it pass and try your best to keep everything smooth from that point on.

Answer 10

Learn how to surf-- you can either put up your defensives and react against the waves, allowing them to break against and overwhelm you-- or you can understand their power and seek to ride them to shore.