I meet this girl at work about 6 weeks ago who finds me to be extremly attractive and she so wants to be with me. Im @ a point when i can feel everything her heart experiences, sadness, nervousness, etc, its like we are connected to one heart. Its the wildest thing, I can even feel her orgasm, we can be cities apart and I know when she is talking about me because I can feel her heart being happy. It has to be the wildest thing Ive experienced. I have been able to give her an orgasm with just a kiss, Ive never been able to do that to any woman. The problem is that Im married. My marriage lacks all the things that this wonderful girls wants to give. I don't want be be a cheat and I don't want to use this girl to be my emotional and physical (sex) dumping ground. what do I do. She feels that we were lovers in another life finally reunited thats why we can sense each others emotions so well. Please help.
2007-08-17 00:43:34 · 9 answers · asked by Sakura 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hate to say this, but if you feel this strongly for another then there is no way you can give your wife what she needs from a husband...divorce.....it's an ugly word, but we are all humans and we make mistakes....take this very seriously into consideration before taking any drastic steps...
2007-08-24 12:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this woman worth losing your wife over? I highly doubt that this "girl" at work had an orgasm from you kissing her. She sounds a little desperate and a whole lot fake! Trust me, what you feel is lacking in your marriage will soon be lacking from a relationship with this girl should you choose to leave your marriage.
2007-08-24 01:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, shut up! Next you'll be saying that she sprouts wings and follows you to work, or at least that is what you two have dreamed up in your fantasy of cheating on your wife. Lay off the extramarital activities, bub; she could be fricking Angelina Jolie (wouldn't surprise me a bit if she was!) and it still wouldn't justify being a lying cheating skunk to your wife.
Oh, yeah... she also performs magic on dollar bills and has dog-like hearing so that she can hear your stomach rumble when it's dinnertime and she's 25 miles away. Wow, what a woman!
2007-08-24 12:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to think what will make you happy in the long term.
although this woman and you have the passion , can you really see yourself with her in a 5-10 years.
but if you let this girl you feel so special about go then you may spend the rest of your life regretting it.
have you also considered trying to put some life back into your marriage? maybe this way your will realise what you realy want
you have to have a long think about these girls, you cant spend any longer messing them around.
2007-08-17 00:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by sunshineee (: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are cheating if you are kissing someone other than your wife or talking to someone else who is not your wife who is expressing wanting to be with you. I'm sure you must have expressed you had feelings too.
Yes, your marriage is lacking in "newness" and the first flushes of desire. You need to get in touch with your wife and reacquaint yourself with your wife.
2007-08-24 00:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man you have a huge ego.Bring her to orgasm with a kiss.Who do you think you are kidding.I think your wife deserves better than you.Playing with someone else whether emotionally or physically is still called cheating
2007-08-24 15:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Charlotte's Dad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will ALWAYS be temptations, but you have to grow up and either stick to your marriage vows or be another jerk statistic that gets flattered way too easily and will continue having this problem until he ends up alone and elderly realizing he should've just stayed married to his first wife.
2007-08-17 00:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Apple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its sad to break up marraige but if you ar eso sure about this and feel this is soul mate guess what you just get a lawye and tell your wife you are done. pack your stuff and get out perid. file for divorce. if you have kids remember there is support. dont' tell her about another woman just move on
2007-08-21 16:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real!
You Don't Want Answers
You are fishing for dates.
Sad, Very Sad.
Ask your wife, I bet she has a real answer for you.
2007-08-24 18:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋