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However, When a true love (which has already been experimented by two human beings and has already been merged with each other' soul, regardless the material world) is not able to reach his own achievement – silence and detachment I would prefer because of my deep despair; certainly no to turn my despair into anger. Anger is an evil/negative emotion. What is your own opinion about?
"Once you realize universal emptiness, all situations are naturally mastered. You have perfect communion with what is beyond the world, while embracing what is within all realms of being".
Fenyang Shanzhao
947-1024, Chinese Chan Buddhist Master
2007-08-16 21:38:26 · 9 answers · asked by jbaudlet 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There are two persons/parties involved in this. By developing tolerance & immunity against abuse , angry words/deeds ,from the other party, you will be able to ignore the harshness against you and pity the person for his ignorance and try and ultimately able to love him.
But the other person loving you is not entirely in your hands. You can only try your best to get him to reciprocate your feelings.
However even a single percentage of achievement is a march in the correct direction.
2007-08-16 22:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by kaushik murali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many ways are there- Forgiveness- Surprise Gifts- Helping Nature- Friendship- Love- Affection- Hugs- Kisses etc.,
2007-08-16 22:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rama Krishna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The opposite of love is not hate, but rather, it is FEAR. Examine the anger and see what is the FEAR that is the actual source of the anger. Perhaps it could be the fear of being alone or fear that you cannot "control" another's loyalty, etc. Anger is a misplaced frustration, another reflection of fear.
So the answer is to let go of the fear, and the love will return. Love is the natural state of being, but it gets hi-jacked by fear.
2007-08-16 22:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by LuvDylan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My determination is that love and hate might nicely be prepare by ability of in basic terms a skinny line. the thin LINE between LOVE AND HATE . i've got self assurance there might nicely be many solutions to this question , besides the obtrusive ones like cheating ,.. the way a individual is dealt with could have the main result on love turning to hate , if he/she is dealt with undesirable , devoid of appreciate , or verbal substitute , it is going to become dislike then in to hate .
2016-10-02 12:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! you think too much!
Despair needn't be turned into anger.
A quiet acceptance based on reflection does tend to turn despair into serenity...
Try it (with some yoga!)...
All the best!
2007-08-16 21:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by Faith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make ur mind ready to change anger into love then everything is possible.
2007-08-17 00:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by lizzie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reaction formation.
2007-08-17 01:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Analyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say take some time, and it will mend itself. Suddenly the words that forever meant to say 'HATE' spell out 'LOVE', changing the world of one.
2007-08-16 21:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mimí..ツ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a decision, a choice, a shift of perception.
2007-08-16 21:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋