im 19 and i have been trying to call my dad and tell him im pregnant but he doesnt answer and now i have a baby girl and i dont know how to tell him any segestions
2007-08-16 18:39:01 · 15 answers · asked by cameyella_newlem 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
write him a letter.
2007-08-16 18:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a note. I am not sure why he doesn't answer.
I assume that there is some issues between the two of you.
Often a sweet little one can ease the tensions between family.
If you have to leave a messege on his machine. But, I think a
nice note with maybe a picture of your little girl.
You probably know he will throw a fit. Let him throw it and hope & pray that he mellows out. Expect it and let it pass....no use playing his game by arguing. He won't even listen at that point. Maybe the two of you can stop the family tradition of dysfunction- and
New life often brings back the love and communication in a family.Your little girl is precious. Hopefully he will step up and be a good grandpa. If not, you & your little girl can make the choice to have a happy life.
I wish you the best.
2007-08-16 18:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, congratulations on the little girl!
Just leave a message that it is important that he calls you! Then tell him how long you have been trying to call him to let him know. Where has he been? Goodness!
2007-08-16 18:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin was afraid to tell her mother she was pregnant for the second time, so she put it in the paper. If he reads, you might consider this. If nothing else, someone will tell him after reading it. My cousin put it under "Guess who is a sister?" and put the first child's picture in. Get his emotions and put in a picture of your daughter. He will come around, grandparents always do. Good luck!
2007-08-16 18:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by bears~N~angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 and one 0.5 months in the past, you had intercourse with a guy you particularly knew, and from this posting, had no contract to produce and enhance a baby at the same time, on account that "from day one..... he needed no longer something to do with you." This fetus has been on your life, in simple terms approximately 0.5 a three hundred and sixty 5 days, and in his, no longer one minute. You opted to hold this fetus to term. and you chosen a guy who, on the time, grow to be thinking along with his little head, no longer his massive one. that is an unplanned being pregnant. And even with the incontrovertible fact which you're prepared to step to the plate, and pony up the time and money to discern, for sure he's not. He already knows which you're pregnant, and specific needs like hell the condom did no longer smash, that he had used one, or which you were on bc. And he's probable very green with envy. base line" It grow to be your option to proceed this being pregnant. on your place, now, i could make effective he on no account knew a element.... no longer one observe, no longer one line, no longer one textual content cloth, nada, zilch. If he wasn't there for you in the past, he would not relatively be responsive to you properly adequate to be there ever, and truthfully, do you desire to get into any legal conflict later, whilst he marries, and say he and his spouse can no longer have any little ones, and he comes when you for yours???? think of forward, hon. on account which you're managing this in simple terms high-quality on my own, "enable a valid asleep dogs lie".
2016-10-10 09:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by federica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wont answer the phone then send him a letter and tell him how it hurt you that he wouldnt answer or call you for that matter tell him he is a grandfather and dont give him anymore info let him think about it then call in a week or so
2007-08-16 18:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took my dad out to lunch and told him the news there. We were in a public place so that he couldnt rip my head off. lol. But you really need to tell him. it is a dads duty to support his daughter and grandbaby. be strong and dont back down. it needs to be done.
2007-08-18 17:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by angel66866 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a card..from baby's side..It should be addressed as...
Dear Grandfather...I hv just arrived in this world few days back on ...date and would love to see you and my grandmum..I would be glad if you come to bless me ..I understand you are annoyed with my mom..but she really loves you so much that she has tears in her eyes thinking of you...Please come to see me..Love..Your Granddaughter...( name) ..
PS: Include a photo of the baby...I hope it helps...Send it ASAP..Good Luck and Congratulations...
2007-08-16 18:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Aquagal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a letter or a birth announcement. maybe a picture of your little girl. it's his loss if he's not interested in his grand-baby. you should be satisfied that you let him know once it's in the mail.
2007-08-16 18:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Emily H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's refusing to take your calls send him a letter. It's not your fault if he won't talk to you.
congrats on the baby.
2007-08-16 18:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by starfire978 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to him and talk to him slowly making you keep eye contact. If he turns away, chase after him.
2007-08-16 18:46:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋