male responses appreciated?

Question

Well if a guy liked me why does he always criticise the way i look? It's not only that he'll say other girls are pretty in front of me.

he'll always want to see foto's of me, then be critical of them and then admire other girls in front of me. And its like no matter what foto i dig up and show him, he's just never happy with them he'll always want to see more. It hurts that he doesnt like me for me and he always is critical, i wish he'd just get over the look factor and move on to the person that i am, but he doesn't seem too.


What do I?

sorry guys i know this had nothing to do with motorcycles, but i thought it would generate more guy responses.

Answer 1

Hey Laura,

You're getting some good advice here - so take it!

Forget photo's - the only thing I would show a guy like that is my a.rse as I rode off into the sunset!

Answer 2

Well, that is strange, you must be super hot, and he wants more and more photos, and criticizes you when in public possibly because he either wants to show you off more and look better than other girls, or wants you to be "under-dressed" so you do not draw attention from other guys. You're prob. too much of a babe. Also, some guys like the voyeur aspect -the photos.(I do) Send me a pic, I'll let ya know LOL! OR maybe he is posting you all over the internet, making some extra cash. LOL! Probably not, just follow your heart. I'd compliment ya and keep opinions to myself, unless they were to say look at that beast/weirdo, and we'd both get a nice laugh, but not for others to hear, that'd be mean, just between me and you.

Answer 3

Dump this guy like yesterday's garbage. There are a lot of guys out there that know how to treat women. You don't need to put yourself through another minute with this a_ _ h_ _ _ and why would you want to anyway. Have a little self respect.
Move on with your life and learn from this situation. A good way to move on would be to take a motorcycle class, learn how to ride a motorcycle and get to know other bikers. We really are a fun group of people and respect women. Give it a try.

Answer 4

Seems like this guy is a little too fixated on vanity, and likely isn't mature enough to look past your looks to your personality. If he's hypercritical of you, maybe you shouldn't be bothered with him, as it seems that you're not up to his "standards." The whole admiration of other girls in front of you is likely his way of trying to tell you what he desires in a woman visually - some things (i.e. clothing, makeup) can be done to suit his taste, but the physical is another matter.

If you're serious about staying with him (or getting with him, whichever applies,) see if you can pick up some of the visual cues he may point out. Ask him if certain things would make you look better to him, like a different shade of eyeliner. If he acts very chauvenistic about this, chances are, he's probably not worth making small changes for. If even these things don't change his behavior, it's likely nothing that you could do (or should do) will, at which point you should start looking elsewhere.

Answer 5

Truck this guy Laura, what the heck do you care what HE thinks. He thinks too much of himself to share it with you. He's defintiely not worth your time. I think he has a little penis and he's making sure you don't notice by belittling you.

Don't show him any more pictures, don't look for him, quit going to the same places as he does, don't give him any more of your precious time and spend it on someone who does appreciate you for you. If you don't know anyone like that you are hanging out with the wrong people.
Send me your pictures and I'll hang them up in my garage around my bikes.

Answer 6

By cutting you down, it makes this smuck feel powerful. Take a hike and don't look back. One thing you'll find is that boys and insecure young men focus on looks only. Old farts like me outgrew that foolishness years ago. As us guys get older, we realize that personality and brains is MUCH more sexy than some jiggling boobies that'll someday look like an orange in a gym sock.

Answer 7

You just need to get a motorcycle that is cooler than his motorcycle. ;-) Try an awesome Ducati - maybe a Monster SR4S, or a 1098.

Just kidding, but trying to keep it on a motorcycle thread! I'd dump the loser - you deserve better. Sounds like he has confidence issues of his own.

Answer 8

It's called "adolescence" and it's what BOYS do, not MEN.

A MAN would compliment you and tell you what he likes about you, and not treat you like dirt based on HIS opinion of your looks. Personality, confidence, intelligence, a sense of humor and a great smile are all far more important to a real man. Your guy is a twit. Move on.

Oh, and go get a motorcycle. Independence, intelligence, humility and sexy all come with it.

Answer 9

this is what a few friends of mine have been through and experienced.in my opinion, he's sending you 1 of three messages:
1. he wants you to change your clothing apparel. take notice at what clothing style he's looking at. make the decision whether or not u can make the style change.
2. he wants u to work on your form and if that's something your willing to do for YOURSELF then go for it.
3. he's keeping his options open
i know i am a female answering this question but the answers r quite clear.perhaps, u can talk to your man and find out why he does it and mention to him about how it effects you when he does those things. there's usually a reason as to why females and males do this kind of thing.so find out what he's up to.

Answer 10

Go find a real man, not the inconsiderate, self-centered egotist you're hanging around with right now. He's using you and you're letting him. Find someone who will compliment your looks and treat you like you deserve to be treated.