Ok I have social anxiety and shyness, and I feel when I leave the room or someones house after visiting them, that they don't like me as much because I was too shy or that they are evaluating me negatively. I was just wondering if the other person is evaluating me negatively or is it all in my head? I am very shy and have social anxiety but I am a VERY nice person and very generous and smile often, but my shyness shows. What do you think?
2007-08-16 17:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
okay alright if you need medication get paxil. just tri to deal with it all the negativity get with people
2007-08-16 18:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by bethanyb157 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During teenage if you have developed shyness, then when you pass teenage that will go off by itself. If from childhood, if you are a reserved person, then it is part of your personality and just get rid off only the shyness part.
Phase one: trying to attend as many social functions as possible regularly. Following your mind the way it fuctions and makes you feel bad and origination and going off process of feelings (Insight Meditation).
Phase two: using some medicine by consulting a doctor coupled with councelling.
Phase three: Reading the biographies of many great personalities (G B Shaw). He was a master piece inferiority complex/shy guy once and how he evolved and many more.
There is a leader and performar in each one of us. All the best
2007-08-17 02:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by r_govardhanam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' all in your Head,The day you decide to be what you want,you WILL be able to do it.No body evaluates others purely as negatively or positively but in a sort of generalized way.You also do the same.Most of us don't even has the time to do it for so many people and re main 'Purpose-specific', like, would he ring me back,can he get here in time,and so on.Go ahead and you have just done it.
2007-08-17 01:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! Ha! You remind me of somebody I'm close friends with! Just be yourself and people who love you will respect you for the type of person you are,if not it's their problem not yours! If you talked around the clock someone would still find a reason not to like you!!!
2007-08-17 01:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ ROCKSTAR MENTALITY♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worry about people judging me because, in my head, I judge others. I hate that I do it, but I do. Yikes, I can't believe I just admitted that. I always hear people saying that it's in your head and noone cares what you do, but I notice things. Not that I matter one way or another. so, there you have it. Say, if we were in a room together, and I thought my thoughts about you....so what??? Does is really matter what I think? I worry what other's think, but I dont think most people do.
2007-08-17 01:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly, after you leave, they are not judging you.
Mostly they are thinking about their own stuff and how people are evaluating them. really.
2007-08-17 01:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋