2007-08-16 17:46:29 · 10 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
1. First you have to learn to like/love yourself for you!
2. Second you have to learn to trust you with you.
3. Thirdly believe in your capabilities to live.
4. Repeat step 1!
Look in the mirror and instead of seeing all the bad points you give yourself.......make a list of positive ones. I told you before that you have a friend on here. ME.
2007-08-16 17:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by missellie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh man, i should not even be answering this, i am the worst person at letting people walk all over me, but i'm learning, maybe i'll find that answer here, i'm glad you asked this....the best way i have found so far is to surround yourself with positive people who make you feel good, that's always a self confidence booster, but it is hard finding postive people these days....Everyday we endure the rigors of work, as well as other factors which may cause stress in our lives. From bosses and fellow co-workers to our own families and activities, stress can take its toll on the outlook we have on our own lives. Sometimes it makes us feel we aren't good enough to achieve our goals or that we may not be able to perform our daily jobs or functions. That's why self-esteem is so important for us. It controls the way we feel as well as our outlook and attitude on life. try these 7 things for me and let me know if it helped.........i'm trying them as well, i found them on a boosting self esteem site......
1. Do something nice for someone else.
2. Do something nice for yourself.
3. Eat a low-fat diet.
4. Exercise daily (take walks).
5. Read words of inspiration from a favorite book.
6. Drink plenty of water each day.
7. Do something nice for someone else without telling him/her who did it (this helps humble ourselves).
I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for the both of us.
2007-08-17 01:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One small step at a time. talk a stand on a little issue and build up to the bigger things. Soon enough you'll have your confidence back.
2007-08-17 00:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyday, try to find something about yourself that you really like and why. And if you can't find anything, find ways to change yourself into someone you'd like to be. Over time, you'll love yourself tremendously.
2007-08-17 02:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Honesty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
completely ignore them sweetie!!! do something for you to make you feel beautiful, and dont let anyone tear your esteem down! you can have your friends and then you can have those aquaintances..... dont stand for people that walk all over you.. noone needs that crap. tell them to either apolagize and give just one 2nd chance or tell them to stay away for good... loves ya!!!: )
2007-08-18 14:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
coming from a very insecure band-aid, iwoud say the main thing is to "say no". sometimes people try to make you do thing you don't need to do and don't have to do. just say no. =)
2007-08-17 07:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by waddlin' along 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start saying no and say it firmly. It worked for me.
2007-08-17 00:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nico 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U have to let those people kno that they cant use u!!! Be strong!!! =)
2007-08-17 13:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by rusi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't stop believing on yourself...
2007-08-17 01:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sapphire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
carry a gun,
a big gun
2007-08-17 00:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Moma 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋