I've been talking to a mother of two kids..nice lady and real honest. I tell her everything in my life and my goals and dreams and I ask her also. I'm really getting to know her and we like each others pictures. So anyways I went camping and when I got back I had 6 emails from her! She was wanting to know why I didn't email her, what she said wrong ect... I left 4 days ago and forgot to tell her but..its not like where dating or anything so whats up with this woman? Is it possible for them to get emotionally attached to someone that they haven't met yet and in only 3 weeks of emails??
2007-08-16 15:25:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
(woman) sorry...long day
2007-08-16 15:29:09 · update #1
johngolf..whatever else crap is on your avatar..its not to hard to see why you have no fans.your an a**!
2007-08-16 15:36:12 · update #2
Yes it can happen.
2007-08-16 15:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be developing feelings for you or have feelings for you, but it may have to more to do with where she is hoping this is leading than actual feelings and if you usually e-mail her every day or every other, it was probably disheartening for her for you not to reply for 4 days. It's really not a huge deal, she was just concerned that she had done something wrong and over reacted a little bit. She is probably a bit more emotionally invested in this than you are too, since she is a single mom and it's harder for single moms to find good guys. Now that she thinks she's met a nice guy, she thought she screwed it up.
Just e-mail her what happend and I'm sure all will be well and she will relax.
2007-08-16 16:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by ╚╔╩╦ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. When dating online, you tend to find out all the great qualities of a person, to the point where they seem "perfect." I've had women that were balling on the first date after talking for only a week because I just wasn't feelin it. And I've been on the flip side of that as well... lol When you find the right person you'll know, just don't rush things. Oh, and next time, don't forget to tell her you're takin off! LOL
2007-08-16 15:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by bigb_nc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can happen. Especially if you talked often and/or shared a lot of personal stuff.
Six emails seems like a lot, though, for her to be getting upset... I would have expected maybe three. So wait and see. If she mellows out and can laugh at the situation, maybe she's a keeper, at least for now.
You're only human. It would've been nice of you to tell her that you were going away (considerate), but people do forget. If you say you're sorry, and she gets over it, sounds about right.
2007-08-16 15:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person. If they're lonely or don't have much self confidence, then I can see how a woman will become emotionally attached. Unfortuntely, it is what it is...I would be turned off by it if a man was like that to me, and I've dated ones who were like that and that was it for me.
2007-08-16 15:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe she could be emotionally attached to you.
You 2 have been talking and she is feeling that she can talk to you about anything.
That is what women look for in a man.
Not saying that she's "in love" with you, but I think that she looks forward to talking to you and it probably helps make her feel better to have someone to talk to.
She just wanted to make sure that she didn't do something or say something to upset you.
You must be a good listener ;)
2007-08-16 15:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is VERY possible. And I wont lie but before I was married it happened to me. I met the man and guess what........we are married.. But we IM'ed-emailed and talked on the phone almost a yr before meeting. I was very emotionally attached to him before meeting him.
2007-08-16 15:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's called a fatal attraction. there are a lot of nut cases out there. you can always ignore the emails, report them as spam or change your email address if you're really concerned.
2007-08-16 16:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by shyanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is possable to get attached that fast even if you do know a guy I mean come on. seems like this ones got possesive issues
2007-08-16 15:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have women (plural) emotionally attached to me in 2 seconds, bub. Anything is possible with psycho chicks who like wacky guys like me.
2007-08-16 15:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seem like you have lid her on.Not nice playing with a women's feelings.Remember Fatal attraction.Mother with kids are not to be toyed with>>>
2007-08-16 15:33:45 · answer #11 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋