My bf is fighting to see his 3 yr old son. he's been paying the mother child support the entire time and he had to go to supervised visits (for some reason, we still don't know why!) but my bf complied with what the court told him to do, he went to the 3 ordered visits and proved to the friend of the court that he is not an unfit parent. now, he talked to the caseworker this afternoon who told him that he could pick his son up on sunday for the first scheduled visit that has been ordered by the court. the court made the schedule because the mother wouldn't agree with my bf on any set times. after calling the caseworker to comfirm that we could go pick him up he called the mother who told him that he couldn't come pick him up on sunday, she said that he still had to wait another week although the caseworker just told him that it was this sunday. i know that if she refuses she will be in trouble with the court, but does he need anykind of written form that says he can get him?
2007-08-16 15:15:01 · 3 answers · asked by poppit 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
If the court made the schedule then it is in writting. Go there on sunday if she refuses to let him have visitation go to the police and file a report!!! Your bf needs to get custody of his son. The mother is and will always be a bad mother because she is denying her son the opportunity to see his dad. She is using the child as a pawn to make the father suffer. The problem is that the child will suffer even worse. I would almost bet this mother will tell the child as he grows up that his father is a POS. Happens all the time and the child develops mental problems from that form of abuse.
2007-08-16 15:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Bud W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I am going to clear this up. DO NOT CALL THE POLICE!! They don't care! It is a custody issue only. Not criminal so the poster who told you to call the police is wrong! And let me tell you that they will be all too unpleasant in telling you about it.
Now, for what you actually need to do. If the mother does not release the child at the appointed time the father must notify his caseworker. If it is the weekend he should do so on the next business day. He may also wish to talk with the casework as to the best way to handle these types of situations.
2007-08-17 14:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by opalescent_angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle this since there is no one available in the case workers office or the court on Sunday, is have an official form from the office. If he goes to the pre-ordered transfer place to pick up the child, and she refuses to release the child, have him call the police. I'm not sure if the police can make her release the child to him, but they will certainly make a report of her refusal for him to take to court.
2007-08-16 15:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by missbeans 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋