Im in the 10th grade and i recently found out that im bi. the new school year is starting and i want to now a way that am bi. can someone help me.
2007-08-16 14:36:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anthonykun 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok well its kind of weird im in 10th and recently discovered that im bi too, i already told one of my friends. I just sugest you be sencere to your because if they are REALLY your friends they will accept you the way you are. hope it helps!!! Because personally it was very hard for me because i was very confused.
2007-08-16 14:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Expect some effed up, so called friends to be really mean and ridiculous and try very hard to not take it personally. It is not your problem. It will be their misfortune to lose you as a friend simply based on something so trivial.
The girls will probably be a lot more accepting than the guys (I'm assuming you are a boy, if ur a girl then it will be the other way around lol).
You don't have to tell the whole school. Not to say you're not proud and you're obviously brave but you may want to consider tell very close friends, one by one.
I really do wish you the best xxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-08-16 14:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For myself,everything happened late in life. I was repressed as hell at your age, about the whole issue of sex - never mind orientation. Bisexuality never seemed to get a mention back then in any case: I thought I was straight but people kept calling me gay. Later I found that both were true - I was a bit of both, being in-between the two. At work these days, I just tell people straight out as soon as they have got to know me as a person. All the best to you and sorry that this was empathy rather than advice. You have courage and I admire you for it. John/TOBERMORY
2007-08-16 16:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just make big tough decision, and ready prepare for everything, and meet them at some nice place and seat down and then say something to begin, and then take a deep breath and then you come out, but don't come out with some unknown friends, they might take you down, and betray you.
2007-08-16 14:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them catch you kissing another dude. I think it would be obvious when they call you out on it and you say no way I'm into chicks too. They'll be confused but then want in on the action.
2007-08-16 14:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by J_T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them together n a place where when you tell them they won't get ideas and think you will try something on them then come out when you do you might find out your real friends but the sooner they know the better you'll feel
2007-08-16 15:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by onyx chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you like men and women? I could never understand that logic. It's either you like women or men. To answer your question: Just tell them the truth and hopefully they are understanding. Good Luck!!!!
2007-08-16 14:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, " I'm a Bi-sexual"
2007-08-16 14:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them, but don't randomly tell them out of nowhere. Make sure they're prepared to know that you have something really important to tell them.
2007-08-16 14:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't bi, just confused. now that you know you are bi. you say you found out your bi. i think you are just curious. go read a bible, and seek counseling, before you continue to live a life of sin. no one is born this way. why would it take you this long to find out?
2007-08-16 14:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋