we are still very much in love! just wondering how to spice it up a lot, have tried many different ideas any help would be great
2007-08-16 13:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have a day that you cater to your husband like you would want to be catered. Let him know he is the most important thing in the world. Do something so out of the ordinary that it will blow his memories of the last 10 yrs outta the water. Make him wonder what the next 10yrs are going to bring. Trust me it works. We've been together 10yrs also and we are still going strong after a slight drought but it fun when it "rains".
2007-08-16 14:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by exoticflava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a weekend sitter for the children, Grandma is always good, book into a LOCAL Romantic hotel, get the best room you can afford, have dinner sent up to the room and wine or whatever you both like to drink( order before you get to the room) take a sexy nightgown for your wife and treat her lik you would a girl friend not a wife. It should work. even if you have to order a"movie" for in the hotel room. Go Romeo!
2007-08-16 13:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the kids to grandma's or a friend's house overnight. You'll remember how to have fun. My husband and I did this 3 or 4 times every year. So glad we did, our baby just left the house permanantly. Thirty year anniversary on Monday. Good Luck.
2007-08-16 13:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dusie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try things like, an erotic massage or bath. Once for valentines day, I dressed sexy and pretended to be a stripper, and boy did my husband love it. He always keeps asking me to do it again and that was about 2 years ago. So just use your imagination, only you know what your husband likes.
2007-08-16 13:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by LaTrice B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating again! Plan a date, call him at work and invite him, and enjoy the night! No talk about work, home, bills or kids allowed.
Leave eachother sexy voicemails and/or notes
Each of you choose a fantasy you want played out, and do it.
Role Play
Use toys
2007-08-16 13:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jill C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chocolate, grape jelly, sex toys, whip cream, fruits, outside, buy a book try everything in it.... rent a movie and try everything in it....rent a room and make noise get throwed out...hope it helps
2007-08-16 13:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by infoman89032 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the initiative and use your imagination!
2007-08-16 13:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋