her from the behind if you know what i mean.......
2007-08-16 12:11:14 · 22 answers · asked by Diego 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I never thought I would ever do that. Then I met the love of my life. And we tried it, and we loved it. Don't listen to these kids and bible huggers, if you want to try it, you have to read up first on how to do it. You cannot just "try it" you have to know what you are doing. Tell her that you read and took precautions and you bought lube and you will take it slow and if she hates it (and she will at first because it hurts more than you can imagine) you will stop. Educate yourselves.
2007-08-16 12:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
from behind or in the butt? those are two different things, but either way, you can't convince if she's not comfortable. it would be like if she asked us how to convince you to have a threesome with another man. what possible answer could we give her? if she isn't comfortable, move on to other positions that you can both enjoy. even if she lets you do it, she likely won't be into it and the enjoyment will be gone anyway. check out cosmomag.com, they have a kama sutra section with tons of positions that rated by difficulty, pleasure for you, and pleasure for her. btw, if we are talking about entering the butt, then you should let her put a dildo in your butt and see how enjoyable you find it. that would be the mature thing to do to show that you are also willing to step outside your comfort zone. i mean that, it is unfair to request something from her that you aren't willing to try yourself (that includes oral sex, sex with extra partners, etc)
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2007-08-16 19:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Either they like it or they don't. Simple. Start with a tongue in the butt or a finger and she how she reacts. Alcohol usually helps for this as well. Make sure she is VERY turned on because that helps as well. Good luck.
2007-08-16 19:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Promise to do anything she wants if she lets you try it once - she might like it...she just has to be willing. If she's scared, buy a small toy to use to test the waters - that might help her. Really, it's all good if it's done right...
2007-08-16 21:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Empress1 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell her how naughty it is... it is your dream.. and if not with her then it needs to be with someone else, that was my rule cause I wanted it, now ... mine LOVES it! I am no longer that into it that much, she is though, I just do it to appease her... wait until she is older and more comfortable with herself (a real woman) , you will not beileve the things that she can and will do! WOW! If I only knew what I married! Wow.. life is great!
2007-08-16 19:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny C 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You can't. Would you want someone ramming something up your behind. It hurts it feels disgusting and it is wrong. If you want that go find a man.
2007-08-16 21:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jessy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do you have to penetrate her from the behind if she does not want to? A lot of women do not feel comfortable with this. Furthermore, it is not hygienic for both partners especially for you.
2007-08-16 19:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Talk about it first and suggest maybe your pinky at first,
but lots or foreplay here buddy take it easy not all at once maybe over several lovemaking sessions
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2007-08-16 19:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by starteless 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If she doesn't like it, then you can't convince her. It's just not something that some women are open to.
You should have found this out about her before you married her, or get over it. Sorry to be blunt but when it comes to something like that, women are usually "love it or hate it."
2007-08-16 19:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Impavidsoul 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You two need to sit and talk about things, be sure to use plenty of lube and she needs to be relaxed or it will be very painful. If she is drinking it will help her relax easier. It is actually fun and I love it. She may want to try with her vibe first.
2007-08-16 19:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamy S 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋