tell him about my hatred for all things small and whiny?
2007-08-16 09:52:54 · 32 answers · asked by C Deezy McCain 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It's totally fine if you don't want children.... that is your choice and nobody can tell you that it's wrong or selfish for feeling that way. However, you and your husband should have discussed this issue before you got married.
2007-08-16 09:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think u should if u dont like babies well if he loves u he will understand. some women were not to give birth or even feel like they have to. i have an 8 year old, i used to love babies and kids now well i have mine but i hate just the idea of having another one no way. no more kids i dont like them. oh and let me tell u my kid was an angel baby no crying no whining nothing but i know that if i have another one it will come out a cry baby, i can feel it. i already had a good experience i dont want to have a bad one :)
2007-08-16 11:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by cutie98144 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah you need to explain that you are really not a baby person, you are the one that has got to carry the child for 9 months and then give birth and be the primary carer... so do not have a baby unless its what you really want...
good luck
2007-08-16 10:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
U should Tell Him What U Think About Kids
2007-08-16 09:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Yep, you should tell him. He may choose to leave, but there is no reason to visit your dislike on a child.
My sister also dislikes kids until they are like 8. However, her reasons for not having any children has to do with her bipolar problem. She would have preferred to adopt an older child, but of course, no agency would allow her to do so.
2007-08-16 10:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your man, get some counseling to figure out why you "hate kids", and if you work through it, then talk about getting pregnant.
2007-08-16 10:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by TwinMommy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think you should tell him it is very important for him to know how you feel about kids. Didn't you talk about kids before getting married?
2007-08-16 10:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mari 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes.
It's a rather important issue. It would be a huge mistake to ever have kids if you feel that way.
It would be completely unfair to your partner to allow him to continue to believe that you have any potential as a mother to his children.
2007-08-16 09:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by who me? 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Tell him and hopefully he understands. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent.
2007-08-17 07:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by HONEYB1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out and buy some parenting books. Defile all of the pictures of the babies and children. Leave them out for him to see and when he asks you about them tell him you heard voices that told you to do it... he won't want to procreate with a crazy woman.
2007-08-16 10:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋