2007-08-16 07:50:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
They are pessimistic. With an attitude like that, they'll never attract the type of person they're looking for. Pessimism attracts pessimism- and that's what they'll continue to get until they lighten up.
2007-08-16 08:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kirby 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think a woman who says that:
(1) Doesn’t look in all the right places
(2) Has set too high a standards for herself
There are many great men out there. You need to do things that will surround you with people who are just like you, i.e., if you’re into running, do races, into dancing, go to see your favorite local bands or join a dance club, etc.
2007-08-16 15:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What I think is that she has unrealistic expectations or is making unreasonable demands.
If a woman is having difficulty finding a "good man", I'd suggest she look inward for the problem. Perhaps the men aren't the problem at all.
2007-08-16 17:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Phil #3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It tells me that she spends her time trying to attract a man rather than just going and finding one.
If you're just sitting/standing there looking pretty then you're going to get hit up by the 'numbers game' guys who just ask every decent to good looking woman on the scene until they get a yes.
2007-08-16 15:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
They are all already taken or gay.
Trust me, I know. I look like a model, am very successful, and a generally good person. Almost every man I have dated tries to get me to **** him on the first date. I don't date anymore. I am more than a walking vagina.
**EDIT*** How many of you condeming us are older than 25 and have actually been actively dating for longer than 2 years? If you meet both criteria, feel free to voice your opinion. And then tell me why you are still single. :)
2007-08-16 15:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by beautifulirishgirl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As a divorced woman....I know the answer to this!
They're all currently married to someone else! ;0)
Of course, that's not true....it's not a matter of finding a 'good man'....it's finding a man you're compatible with.
2007-08-16 14:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by baciandrio 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i think that for some reason, they are not ready for relationships. There is no shortage of good men or good women around but you have to be a good woman or good man yourself to spot them.
2007-08-16 15:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by uz 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Interesting, good men are all around us. Youth and lack of wisdom, though, can cause people to seek what is false, what is superficial and unimportant. Also, people can actually deliberately surround themselves with troubled, weaker people in order to feel superior or due to morbid codependent addictions.
2007-08-16 15:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
I think they are looking in all the wrong places for one.
Or the men don't want to be found.
2007-08-16 15:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by Tigger 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There will never be a man good enough for her.
2007-08-17 21:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bambi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋