She's really pretty but thats not why I'm attracted to her. There are better looking girls in my grade but she's so sweet and smart and funny that I get warm whenever I even think about her. So were going to different highschool's but I still have this crush on her. She's more like my friend but I don't know if she likes me the same way I like her. I'm too shy to say anything to her because I'd be embarrased if I got shot down. She ain't never been with a guy before even though she's really pretty. So ladies I'd just like to hear from you what you think I should do and also some things I could say to her that would be sweet and make her feel good inside so that maybe she could start to like me.
2007-08-16 06:36:16 · 21 answers · asked by James 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
JUST TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL
She will probably respond well.
2007-08-16 06:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you're too nervous to say anything, because you are afraid you'll get shot down, the only way you will ever progress is to let go of that fear. nothing will ever happen to you if you dont let it happen to you.
the best conversation starter for your situation would be "i've missed seeing you around school. has life been good for you?"
she will most likely talk about how its harder, or easier there, and weather or not she's made any friends. be open, be sure to act at least a little happy to see her. she will take notice of this, and will appreciate that you have missed her.
after a couple minutes of talking, and she's seemed to stop talking about how things are where she is now, say something like,
"hey, since we dont see each other much anymore, do you want to go do something and catch up more?"
pay attention here. if she seems slow to respond, say "its just from one friend to another, you know?"
if she seems happier after this, she actually doesnt feel the same way you feel (which i will be suprised if she doesnt)
if she says "yeah" do not hesitate.
"whats your favorite place to hang out?"
or
"have you ate at that new pizza place that opened up?"
be creative!! pay lots of attention. but be receptive, if it looks like she was kind of busy before you started talking to her, she probably was. its nothing against you. we girls have tight schedules. pick out a date and a time and a place and tell her it was great seeing her again!!
its not hard! its really easy!! just be yourself.
if she does like you, she likes you for who you are, and not someone you're trying to be. K?
2007-08-16 06:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by ASLotaku 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first girls love hearing what you have to say but more importantly they love love when a guy listens to and really listens tell her she looks nice today or laugh when she says something funny when you lock eyes give her that look that tells someone you like them she will notice it if she digs you she will most likely let you know even if she doesn't say if she's never been with a guys take it slowly don't pounce she might get scarred and run off show her you can be a great friend as well as a boyfriend
2007-08-16 06:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by ashpchinds 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww lol well you could be honest with her and just tell her but your shy and thats ok....I prolly would be too. Well when you are with her dont talk about other girls and try do do stuff with her but dont overwhelm her. For nice things to say you can always tell her that she looks really pretty today its nice but not too forward. And if you think of something at the moment say it even if its just wow you smell good! lol I hope things work out!
2007-08-16 06:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, depending on her age if she is 14 or older she may be craving a boy friend right now. I understand that you don't want to end your friend ship and you should tell her that. Write her letter, that may be easier for you, and tell her your feelings then tell her i don't want this to end our friendship and ask her if she will go out with you ( if you put in the letter a ryme or something cute not creepy then she will fall for you probaly and if not dont be discouraged there are tons of girls in this world)Good Luck!!
2007-08-16 07:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by haley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, it all depends on her personality, and if she's as sweet and cute as you say, then go for it. She doesn't seem like the girl to just dump you so easily, and if she does, then you'll make it through. Maybe it's your destiny to be with her, maybe not, but you don't know until you try!
2007-08-16 06:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS SO SWEET Talk to her you know girls want to be told when were liked and in fact telling us might makeus like you more than you know if you get shot down it might be because someone else onher mind but its better to try then regret it later and wonder what if ??????
GOOD LUCK
2007-08-16 06:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by meri 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww.
Well, Just go for it, Just explain to her how you feel.
don't be embrassed about expressing you're emotions atall.
you never know, she might be in the same position as you and might be embrassed too.
As for making her feel good, give her compliments once in a while. But don't be too clingy or desperate, it will kind of freak her out. lolol:)
Good luck (y)
2007-08-16 06:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well try to attrack her by doing sth special or if she knows u she might have a thing for u but doesnt wanna show to u so try to ake her jealous by acting like u care about sb else ok or if u r a good friend for her buy her sth and tell her sweet words
2007-08-16 10:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by bestpocahontas89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww thats sweet, just give her compliments, but not in an overly rehearsed way, be real and confident and try to give off the impression that you like her
2007-08-16 06:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Kate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont be shy to talk to her if you say shes nice and sweet then u should be able to carry on a converstaion without feeling werid or anything... and maybe she hasnt had a guy because noone every talked to her talked her i mean dont flirt with her b her friend first
2007-08-16 06:45:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋