Do you feel that your relationship with your bf/gf/spouse is getting "stale"? Like seldom keeping in touch? If you know what I mean.
What to do?
2007-08-16 06:05:04 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sometime it happen in a relationship, you just can not give up, but try harder to make it better.
2007-08-16 06:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by sofar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a wonderful relationship that I covet every day of my life and I let him know daily that he is loved and adored. Maybe that is why I don't feel it to be "stale". We also spend a lot of time riding our bikes as a couple. Riding 40+miles a night can bring you closer when you share the pain of the post ride AND the massage that follows... :O)
Sometimes he does forget to be sensitive but that's alright. I love him anyway.
Another thing we never do is say "no" to one another, if you know what I mean. Regardless of the day I have had or he has had, we always are available for a little roll in the sack for stress relief. I think that keeps it fresh also.
I am lucky.
As for your relationship, re-examine what brought you together and then do those things again. Reach out to one another and rekindle some old embers of your love. Talk and listen to one another. Find a hobby you can share as a couple and DO IT!
Sandy :O)
2007-08-16 06:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to try new stuff together, go out with different people, try some new sports, go out to different places and stuff like that! I've been in a relationship for eight years and whenever it gets stale we try new stuff, because you could get stale even if you're single!
2007-08-16 06:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by thalija_muse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've never felt that and we've been married for a long time and together even longer of course. If that's happening then it's time to re-focus and start spicing things up. When we've been in a relationship for awhile we tend to get to comfy, a person should start doing some of the things to, for and with their mate like they did when they first got together. Wouldn't hurt to try something new either.
2007-08-16 06:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to the person with your feelings/concerns right out front. Communication is vital in any relationship and can be the major gauge in where everything will stand in the future.
2007-08-16 06:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's what happened to me and my first boyfriend. We ended up breaking up in March after a 2 year relationship. I mean we still talk every once in a while, but we just didn't need to be together anymore.
2007-08-16 06:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by atcblue05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your significant other is losing interest. Hopefully you haven't lost them for good but it is possible to drift away. You need to do something to reel them back in. You are a woman, you know how to do this.
2007-08-16 06:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Martyr Machine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf and I have been together for almost 6yrs and we spend allot of time together
and we work together too....we usually make a friday or a saturday our night of
spending time together,we do things that we both enjoy, and just love and respect each other...
2007-08-16 06:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Victoria ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little. His mind has been preoccupied with other things lately, so he hasn't been very attentive. I put a stop to that last night. What he hasn't been giving me, I took.
2007-08-16 06:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i talk 2 him everyday lol but itz kinda at a weird point rite now - long story
2007-08-16 06:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by <3.love.tennis. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋