why????????

Question

why are all you women so irritable towards others just asking simple questions. two words ladies....CALM DOWN!!!!

Answer 1

The only way you're going to know whether or not you're pregnant is by waiting and taking a test... that's the only thing the people on here can tell you. We're not all irritable but the "Am I Pregnant?" questions do get a little frustrating because the only thing we can tell you is that it's possible and to take a test. And since you're asking the question, you already know that it's possible and the only other thing you can do is get tested. It's not being irritable, it's just stating the facts.

However, I would say that it's probably stress seeing as the majority of women don't start experiencing symptoms until after a missed period. Most women don't start getting pregnancy symptoms until around 3-4 weeks after conception (aka at 5-6 weeks of pregnancy). Good luck though. Once you've been on here a while, those "am i pregnant" questions will start to get old... even to you...

Answer 2

I'm sorry that you are having this bad experience. Sometimes people can just be really freakin' rude. You have to look over them because I have asked some "stupid, or dumb" questions on here before and the people who answered seriously really made me feel a lot better. Don't let them get to you. And as far as you being pregnant sweety, no, no one can know. But the stress could keep you from getting your period and then you are really going to think that you are. So calm down eat some ice cream (that always helps me) and just wait. Check out www.twoweekwait.com it's a great site that helped me during my "unknown" stage. Also, I had a bunch of symptoms before my missed period, I basically knew before I actually knew! Good luck, and god bless.

Answer 3

It's nothing really against you, I just think people on here get sick of seeing the same question worded almost the same way time after time after time. It tends to get old after a while seeing "Am I pregnant?" at the top of the Pregnancy page, with somebody describing vague symptoms. I avoid those questions entirely...who am I to say yes or no, or even maybe, when I have no idea. True, it's much better for people to just stay out of it if they can't be civil, but please understand there are tons of people coming here every day asking for Yahoo! Answers users to diagnose their symptoms. And the fact of that matter is that it's impossible to do so.

Answer 4

It's not so much that we're rude. It's just annoying being on here and seeing questions asking "Am I pregnant???" I didn't sleep with you, I don't know your menstrual cycle, and I'm not a psychic. If pregnancy tests cost a ton of money then yes, I could understand asking people if you're pregnant or not. But when someone can get them for $1 and have them accurate, it's a waste of time and energy to post a question on here.

Answer 5

well, in a pregnancy thread, it's mostly pregnant women there. And pregnant hormones make us more openly to voice our irritation. Such as people asking "am I pregnant?" That has got to be the most annoying question on here. Everyone can wait and buy a test just like the rest of us on here. So....why are you so defensive on the subject?

Answer 6

AMEN!! I get the worst comments to some questions i ask.....i just find it valuable to get feedback from people not close to any situation that i may experience. a lot of women can give brilliant answers that help immensely, then other times i just get called names and insulted. like the other day i was told controlled crying on my 12 month old would be cruel and make him build up emotional walls around himself - update - he is as happy as ever and so much better for receiving a full nights sleep! i really wish people could be neutral and just answer the question!

Answer 7

You're the one that seems to be overly irritable.

But people tend to get exasperated at questions like your first one. Which was, basically, "What are the chances I'm pregnant, I'm not even late for my period yet but I just want to know."

No one can answer that, because you didn't give enough information. You didn't describe your symptoms. You didn't even mention when or if you had unprotected sex.

That's not a simple question. That's a simple-minded question. You're lucky you got as many respectful answers as you did.

Answer 8

I hate to break it to you but you just singled out yourself by typing Calm Down in all caps. Plus, this is not even a question relating to Pregnancy. A double Whammy. Dont throw stones.

Answer 9

if you look at my past questions, been such a big complaint of mine. The women on here (moms) can be so judgemental and make you feel like crap when you are asking simple questions.... THe one that really had me bawling was when I was asking advice about my vacation without my child, was called a bad mom, like I didnt care etc. People are $%$^&s sometimes, especially other mommies! But I still like it here because there are also great mommies with great advice without judging!

Answer 10

I do not think it is just the women, it is the men as well. However, I would recommend posting this type of question in a different category.