No one ever wants to be around me because people always say I complain too much about what people tell me or do to me. I'm a very nice person. If I treat people nice & give them what they ask for, why am I considered negative?
& when I say something positive, people be like, "Who cares?"
I only have 1 friend to turn to for support. People get impatient with me very easily.
2007-08-16 04:41:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I do not consider you a nuisance or a sociopath. I consider you a delightful, caring, sensitive person.
Perhaps because of your diability, you just have not met the right people. You are not negative, they are.
You seem to be very popular on this site. Perhaps we are the right people? LOL
2007-08-16 06:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that's just annoying. I had a similar problem before- I complained *a lot* and it almost ruined my relationships with people. No one wants to hear a person b*tch all the dang time. I can understand where you're coming from- I'm a very nice person as well, I just have certain standards that were not being met. Once my situation in life changed, I wasn't complaining so much. Try changing some things in your life and see if it helps you.
And people "are like", not "be like".
2007-08-16 11:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Maneerae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think complaining is a part of life. But, just try to let things roll over your shoulders a little more. Complaining sometimes just makes you feel worse. But those people are probably the mean and impatient ones.
But it's good to have at least one friend. :) Quality not quantity is really important when it comes to friendship.
2007-08-16 11:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I consider you neither. I think you have some problems you need help with, and until you get the right help you will continue to have negative thoughts. Sounds to me like you have been through awhole lot of bad things in the last two years. That would make anyone crazy. Try to like yourself for who you are. Quit listening to other people. Get you some help with your health issues.
2007-08-16 13:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by hootie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So ask yourself this question" what do you think about yourself"? What you are saying is not negative in anyway. Remember to just be "yourself". Those people who say "who cares". Forget them.
2007-08-16 11:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by DAVID C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as you.... But I don't have any real friends to turn to.... People just get bored of me and blow me off to talk to someone else! I just don't think I should belong to society at all...;.;
2007-08-16 11:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jay P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should walk up behind whoever does that and thump them behind the ear, really hard.
2007-08-16 15:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋