She has sex with them then they dont last. She doesnt even wait a week or two she just oh you wanna be my boyfriend take off your clothes and i think making them her bf is an exuse to have sex with them so she can say well he was my bf thats why i did it.. you guys there has been alot of these bf's what do i say?
2007-08-16 03:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by ~*[AnD]*~ 4 lyfe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yu guys but shes MY BEST FRIEND i cant just choose to get outta the realtionship i should want ot help.
2007-08-16 04:02:16 · update #1
it's none of your business, so you don't say anything.
it's up to you to decide whether to remain in the friendship or not.
many girls who do these things either have abandonment issues, other emotional problems or they were sexually abused at one time. this doesn't mean your friend has one of these issues, but i am sure there is some sort of problem or issue going on with her.
her parents must be too dumb to notice she has issues.
2007-08-16 03:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Damn this is a hard question. I had a friend exactly like this. I guess it was because she was never close to her mom or dad. She just did this for attention. I would advice you to do what I did. I created a fake email account as a guy and I emailed her. I told her I really like her but she is moving too too fast and etc..... I think she is doing this for attention. I guess, you have to ask her why does she do this to herself. That's the only way you can find out or try my idea and tell her what you would like to tell her as a third person. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
2007-08-16 10:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Keisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just hyper sexual and really just wants the sex from these guys and not the relationship. You said it your self "She calls them her boyfriend as an excuse to have sex with them."
She's an adult who knows right from wrong so the only thing you can say is be safe. Which she should also already know.
2007-08-16 10:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Myself 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs to find out what true love really is and isn't. Have her read in the Bible I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" where it says love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. It isn't boastful or proud and always believes in the positive. This love is such that it will gladly give up its own life to save the life of another. If love dies, it wasn't love in the first place, but something else like lust. Lust will always fail you when someone better comes along. It says of faith hope and love that the greatest is love. It is this kind of love that has kept my wife and I married for over 29 years. Sex was originally intended, besides being the means of reproduction, as an expression of love by a couple that is married to each other. People aren't supposed to be like neighborhood dogs running around mating with everyone in heat. True love takes effort and commitment by both partners for it to be successful. If everyone would develop true love, then the divorce rate wouldn't be so high. Besides that, your friend is on a dangerous course concerning her eternal life. She is guilty of the sin of fornication, which could cause her not to go to Heaven when Jesus returns to judge the world for its sin. In addition, she is in danger of getting a non-curable sexually transmitted disease like AIDS or pregnant or any number of other things. She needs to stop this kind of lifestyle now before she destroys herself. The best way would be for her to ask Jesus to forgive her sins and deliver her from the temptation of having sex. He will treat just like the woman who was brought before Him for judgement after being caught in adultery (A person who is married to someone else having sex with someone he/she isn't married to is committing adultery.). He told her accusers "Let he who is without sin throw the first stone". After they ran away leaving her there, He forgave her and said, "Go and sin no more". Your friend needs to get control of her life before it is too late.
2007-08-16 10:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she is not respecting herself. Even if she thinks she's doing it to have a good time or because she's "dating" these people, she's only kidding herself. If I had a friend like that I'd tell them that as their friend I want her to have fulfilling relationships and I want her to respect herself and it doesn't seem like she cares enough about herself or the other person to really develop a relationship before hopping in bed.
2007-08-16 10:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rockit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Interesting question boyzfantisy. A little ironic though.
You tell her that it's her life and she's free to choose whatever path she wants. Your life is also your life and you are free to choose the path you want. Tell her you want to associate with people who respect themselves and who you can respect. Since she is unable to do that you can not be friends.
2007-08-16 10:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Approval issues.
2007-08-16 10:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get checked out for STD's.
2007-08-16 10:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Care 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋