masturbation?

Question

i love it but is it okay to do it?

Answer 1

For the BILLIONTH TIME.
IT IS FINE!

Answer 2

Since everyone else answering has depraved beliefs, I feel a need to input.

I'll tackle it simply from a well-being perspective. Masturbation is a way to get a high like any other drug... the response it causes in your brain mimics the high you would get from something like cocaine. Of course, anyone addicted to it would say they love it, but it doesn't mean its doing you good. There are several points I can make to argue this.

First off, since the effect is drug like, you only feel good while your doing it and for maybe a couple minutes after an orgasm, but then feel empty and crappy once the low kicks in. In fact, you feel worse off than you did before you masturbated, meaning you would have been better off not doing it in the first place.

Secondly, like a drug, it can become obsessive. You may have an urge to do it during a time where you really would not. In fact, if you realize the first point I made, that it in fact lowers your well-being, you won't want to do it, yet your body may urge you to do it against your will. In such cases, the addiction controls you rather than the other way around.

Lastly, it can have bad effects on your sex-life. Without going into too much detail since your question isn't about sex, masturbation causes one to focus on the self and on one's own pleasure, when genuine sex, as in true love making, is suppose to be a selfless act with your attention centred towards the other. The only truly fulfilling orgasm you can have is in making love selflessly to someone you love, and no masturbation orgasm can possibly do that... it's only a shallow and empty high.

The above is true whether people think I'm crazy, and if you choose to accept it, you will be making a very wise choice. Since it works like any addiction, if you resist the urge and keep off of it for a couple of weeks, the urges will go away and you will find yourself feeling more satisfied overall.

Answer 3

It's not bad wrong or unhealthy, but the fact it gives a very pleasant time and great satisfaction already will be enough to carried it out............ and forever!
Besides, it's not a random case if till now I always have met girls who from the puberty had started enjoying by fingers and dildo!

Answer 4

I think it is perfectly natural... Some people are up tight to say the least... It is just a part of knowing your own body... Opinions will very on this one depending on where you post the question...

Answer 5

masturbation is a healthy & common behavior.

Answer 6

It's perfectly natural and healthy to do. Don't worry!

Answer 7

Why did you ask this in Men's Health?

Answer 8

Sure, it keeps you happy and stress-free

Answer 9

it's more than OK to do it