Cousins And Oral Sex?

Question

My cousin talked me into having oral sex with her she’s 20 and I’m 16 she said it would be good practice and that there’s nothing wrong with it. No one has ever done the things she does to me before and at first I thought it was great but now I’m starting to feel a little bit guilty because I see her with a lot of other guys plus she’s my cousin. What should I do??? Should I let her continue with her practicing??? Or how can I make her stop??? She’s very demanding and I see her everyday???

Answer 1

Dude. That's morally nasty plus illegal in multiple ways. Either tell your parents or the police. Personally I would go the parent route first, but do something.

Answer 2

You should talk to a school counselor about what is going on. You will probably need the adult support to make your cousin back off.

The statement that "it would be good practice" is just bull**** !!!
She's sexually abusing you and you need help to get her to leave you alone.

You are correct to be concerned. It IS wrong. She need to go to a counselor to learn why she's doing this so she can deal with her problem and learn to stop. She may have been sexually abused when she was younger, and is simply passing on to you something that was done to her.

Meanwhile, tell her ABSOLUTELY NO MORE oral sex, or any other sexual interactions. But do enlist the help of a teacher you are comfortable with.

Answer 3

Ok, if you didn't already know, what she is doing to you is called statutory rape, because she is an "adult" and you are still a minor. You have to stop what she is doing. If you really want to get her to stop tell her that what she is doing is illegal and is punishable by law. If that doesn't work, you may have to get your parents involved. The question is, if she had wanted to have actual sexual intercourse, could you have been talked into doing that too? Probably not, because that is straight out, obviously wrong and you would know this.

Even though to some degree, it may be pleasurable to you, she is taking advantage of you and you on some level realize this, which is why you are feeling guilty. What it comes down to,is that what is going on is wrong and you have to stop.

Answer 4

Even though she is your cousin you must stand up for what you know is right. She had no business to ask you to do that because you are related and because she is an adult and you are a minor. You are invloved in an incest relationship and they are very unhealthy. Incest is sexual relations between persons who are so closely related that their marriage is illegal or forbidden by custom.
The statutory crime of sexual relations with such a near relative. And under no cicumstances should she be doing anything sexual with you. I advise you to tell someone you trust so she can get the help she needs. Talk with your mom or dad or an aunt...even a teacher could help, but tell somebody.

Answer 5

It is legally and morally wrong for cousins to be having any kind of sexual relations together, regardless if it is just "for practice" or not. If she is 20 and you are 16 that is against the law and she could certainly spend time in jail for that. You should tell her that. You are old enough to SAY NO!

Answer 6

Im sure most of the guys on here would give ya high 5s etc. But its illegal like someone said, morally wrong and well your related.

If she doesnt stop tell her you will go to your parents. You do know that if she catches any VDs she can pass it on to you orally? Wouldnt that be nice to get something like that and from your cousin.

If it feels wrong than it is wrong.

Answer 7

No, no, no! Make her stop! First of all, she is your cousin; second of all, she is "of age" and you are not! What she is doing is sexually assaulting you, and you should not be allowing her to do this.

My recommendation is that you get the police involved, because what she is doing is wrong, and she may begin perpetrating against other boys if you refuse to be with her.

Please, take my words seriously, as I am a child and youth care worker, and I have seen other kids who have gone through this (both on the perpetrator end and the victim end). If no one speaks out, then it will keep happening (if not to you, then to somone else)....

Answer 8

I am sorry but this is statutory rape on her part, you are only sixteen and for god's sake she is your cousin, that is so not right. Stop it now!!!!! she should know better and so should you. If she is your blood relative, that is almost like incest to me. She really could go to jail for this if anyone finds out about it, not mention this is going to stay with you for the rest of your life. Tell her you don't feel comfortable about it anymore and you just don't want to do it anymore, she is one sick puppy!!!

Answer 9

I believe this is how FDR and Eleanor started out. If it's good enough for one of the greatest presidents who ever served, it should be good enough for the likes of you. Of course, FDR did have a long time mistress and Eleanor was most likely a closeted lesbian, but putting those issues aside, I would advise you to stick with it if you're enjoying yourself and you have aspirations of holding a public office one day.

Answer 10

What you did is called incest and you are a minor, therefor you can charge her with a crime here. Um, you need to tell this weirdo number one to find someone her own age and number two to leave you alone sexually. Don't let her convince you that this behavior is acceptable. And, if you thought this was ok, then, why did you have to ask Answers?