i have been seeing this man 2 1/2 months and currently 2 months preg.He got me preg 1st night, told me he pulled out, later said he really didnt.he asked me to marry him right off also, we did not do.in this relationship he is disrespectful.calls me names when mad like stupid, b***h, dumb, has horrible temper.tells me he doesnt know if he still wants to be with me then screams at me when i tell him to walk away then.he always tells me he loves me and wont be so mean anymore yet he stays mean.he tells me i complain to much when i am sick from being preg and he doesn't care to know about my day or anything.he doesnt have a car (me and him have well paying jobs) and doesn't give me anything, not even for my birthday.he's never hit me out of anger, just slapped me once because i told him i am stronger than him and he wanted to prove himself.am i being paranoid?
2007-08-16 02:37:40 · 6 answers · asked by Blessed21 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not at all, he shouldn't treat you that way- especially considering that you are carrying his child. perhaps you should talk with him and explain that you want to be treated with respect. if all else fails, maybe you should seek couples' counseling or consider breaking up.
2007-08-16 02:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by sunkissed. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he got your pregnant the first day of your relationship he's probably pretty darn resentful... After-all the time he should be spending getting to know you and possibly starting a meaningful relationship is NOW turned into starting a family.. That's not really fair to him.. It's not an excuse for his ABUSING you but, that's a reality.. SEX is not something to enter into casually... This is proof ! I would get out while you can since I don't think this relationship is truly meant to be. I'm sure that you are trying to do the right thing(s) because there's a baby but, you have to think about your personal safety and that you two really don't know each other and it's not fair to expect him to just accept you/pregnancy.. If I were you I would look into adoption/abortion in this instance... In the future be responsible for your own birth control and make your partner use a condom as well.... Good luck
2007-08-16 09:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More like, what's wrong with this picture? This relationship sounds like it was not thought out at all. I wouldn't make excuses for someone hitting me for any reason. Nor would I stay in a relationship that prompts me to question it online. Thats just a little scary.
Sounds like maybe he is taking out his anger and stress over the pregnancy on you. It takes two to tango. He didn't get you pregnant and you didn't just get pregnant. It wasn't just one or the other. You were both irresponsible and unprotected sex can lead to a lot more than a pregnancy. I worry about the child, is anyone taking him or her into consideration?
2007-08-16 09:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by songbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at how his father is treating his mother and you will see what you are in for.
2007-08-16 10:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with your boyfriend? What wrong with you? Why are you still with this guy?
2007-08-16 09:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out fast....
2007-08-16 09:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by smurfette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋