Is it ok to Ask for sex off my girlfriend for my 18th... we havent done it yet..?

Question

Shes 17 and we have been together for 5 weeks.....

Answer 1

yeah, go 4 it....if she says no, respect her answer tho..

Answer 2

Sex for the first time is not a birthday present and you should not ask for it.

If your gf wants to offer you it that is another matter.

Your gf may be a virgin and may need more time b4 she is ready to have sex. Your gf may not want a casual relationship with you. After only 5 weeks and at your age it is unlikely to be more than casual.

If you feel the need to prove yourself a man as you come of age you should see a good prostitite who can teach you a thing or two. Then when the time comes you can show your grf a really good time rather than an immature fumbling.

Answer 3

no, no, no and again NO! Asking will only make you sound like a desperate nerd, now maybe you are, but displaying it is not sexy. Think: maybe she is planning that for you anyway. Treat the night as a normal date and towards the end of the night...well see how things go. But don't put a pressure on her that may ruin your whole birthday. You are only 18 once, so enjoy it to the fullest...and if you happen to get laid in the process, it's a bonus. Good luck and happy 18th!

Answer 4

No unless that's your priority in life. If you're looking for a long-term relationship then let it develop. Sex is best when it is best for both people and as an expression of deep love and trust. You may enjoy a one night stand but there is so much more to sex. When trust develops and you can share intimate thoughts and fantasies without worrying what the other will think of you then the earth really can move.

Answer 5

Five weeks is not along time. She might give you more then just sex for your birthday if you no what I mean. You need to get to know her better. Whats the rush? First find out about her pass relationships. How many guys have she been with if any? She maybe saving her self for marriage which is a good thing.. Also are you ready to become a dad?

Answer 6

I wouldnt just ask her out right it might shock her a bit especially if this is the first time you have spoke about it. Mention it to her and see how she reacts. I tell you something though its not just sex that is good foreplay is also. Get to know each other slowly (intimatly) then go for the sex you'll feel so much more relaxed and both be happy when the day finally comes - good luck mate

Answer 7

No...merely because of the fact its your birthday does no longer propose something. you have basically been at the same time 5 weeks. do no longer tension her because of the fact it won't finally end up the type you like it to and it is normally a dissapointment. Why do no longer you 2 merely pass out that nite and notice what occurs? I hate while intercourse is asked for, its greater useful while its spontaneous.

Answer 8

I suppose you can ask, but don't be upset if she says no.

And if she's unsure, don't push it.

Not to mention, she's still only 17 and you're 18... if she says something afterwards, YOU are the one going to jail, not her.

I would wait for the right time... if you have to ask... it's most likely not the right time.

Answer 9

I dont think u should. U should wait when shes ready my dear.
You´d be putting pressure on the poor girl. But if u really want to, u dont get it without asking.

Answer 10

"Oh gee honey, I don't want much for my birthday this year, just your heart, soul, life, sanity..."

Yes, it is wrong to ask her for that. You men just do it with anything that will stand still. Women lose their hearts and then you dump us like yesterday's hash brown breakfast. Only ask her for that if you're asking for her hand in marriage. Be different from the usual idiots! Get a gift certificate to the shopping mall and stop asking for the world.

Answer 11

As you havent known her for long I would advise both of you to take it steady but at the end of the day its up to both of you to decide how you feel about each other.