my husband never has sex with me and its been a year and i have talked to him about it yet he says he has no desire for it, i,ve tried everything even walking around naked in front of him should i cheat on him?
2007-08-15 21:16:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He may be impotent & unable to do sex for this reason. The non consummation of marriage because of impotency is a good ground for getting a marriage annulled by decree of nullity. Go ahead with annulment of this marriage & get remarried to some physically normal person. For getting annulment on this ground you require to prove his impotency medically for which he has to surrender for medical examination & on the basis of the report of his impotency the decree of annulment of this marriage will be granted to you.
2007-08-15 21:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.. that'll make u desperate and a sinner.if u dont love him because of that i think sexual incapacity is a ground for divorce.. and there is a possibility that he'll sue you for adultery. Well, ask his permission like, HONEY CAN I HAVE A SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE, dont worry I'LL BE HOME BEFORE DAWN TO COOK YOUR BREAKFAST! heheheh! funny scenery huh! But I think u too should consult a marriage consultant or a psychiatrist, there is always a reason behind. Stop worrying about ur lust or ur cravings, if you love your man.. TAlk to him and try solving the problem together. If he is soo uncooperative, divorce him.. Maybe ur husband found out that he is a gay. Well, he'll take that happily and ask you next.. Hey baby, I'll do your make up on your next wedding day, muwahhhh!
2007-08-16 04:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on him. Cheating is never a good answer to anything. Maybe your husband is secretely gay. yikes. If it bothers you that much, you two should see a counselor. If counseling doesn't work, and you feel as though you have tried everything in your power to make it work and it still isn't, then I'd say get a divorce. But cheating and divorce are your last results for this case...good luck.
2007-08-16 04:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never stay with someone who didn't make love to me . What on earth could be wrong with him? I'm no doctor, but to me he sounds like a cold and unloving person and you have to know that it's not your fault. Being in that kind of relationship is very damaging to a woman's self-esteem, making her feel like she's not sexy or attractive enough, when it's really the man with the problem. I'm sorry but a man should not be hard to turn on unless he is gay or having an affair. You deserve to be with someone who will rock your boat- I'm sure there are plenty of men willing to do the job properly once you get a divorce.
2007-08-16 04:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! He may have a medical condition that some men get that makes them indifferent to sex. There are medicines you can get at drug stores. Try having him take some of these. But whatever you do, do not cheat on him. That would be the worst choice.
2007-08-16 04:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think being intimate is a very big part of the relationship and i find it hard to believe hes turning you down if hes doing that then he must be getting it else were before he comes home, i think that if you have tried everything then you should set him free and find someone who wants to be with you the way a husband should be with his wife
2007-08-16 04:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... your husband is sure missing a lot!!! or maybe he's already having sex with another woman??? a fling? better find out fast or ur marriage will be on the rocks.
2007-08-16 04:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by zykoe1208 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm......walking around naked in front of me would get things going
2007-08-16 04:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Just a guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that's a great idea. if he's depressed and is lacking in sex drive because of it, that'll really fix him
2007-08-16 04:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesn't want to fix his problem then you'll get a devours.
2007-08-16 04:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by noona 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋