Fate or Bad Luck, How much more can i deal with???

Question

I am very optomistic i feel everything happens for a reason but over the last 2 years things have happened that would test the strongest of minds. Do you ever say to yourself it can't get much worse then it does? I've stopped saying that sentence has I now feel i'm tempting fate or it doesn't make any difference if i do. My life in the 3 weeks: (similar to last 2 yrs)
The car stopped dead to be scrapped in middle of roundabout
My nan got rushed to hospital and now cannot walk
The washer broke down
My mum discovered she had breast cancer
My Godparent (great Aunt) (on dads side) dies
The paternal father of my 7year old daughter decided to suddenly get in touch (never once bothered) causing stress between my partner who's brought her up since 5 months, myself and my daughter.
My great aunt died leaving my nan and mum traumatised.
My 9year old neice on Sun was playing for no reason stopped breathing she is no longer with us
When will it end enough is enough please asvice????

Answer 1

Maybe it isnt fate that your tempting.

Answer 2

Wow. trans4mind is a good site for free information on handling emotions and the mind and other things about life and making it work for you. What's going on in the sciences is just in time to handle the 21st century and tame it. If we don't get it in time and fill ourselves we won't be able to handle the world outside. "Go within, or go without." "Charity begins at home." and spreads out to the whole family, if you get the art of life. It starts so much inside where all the love is and spreads like a good virus. Negativity fights the immune system and the mind, for instance, as does judgmental words. It clogs the mind like clots clog the body and there's an intimate relationship. Intuition unites the self into a more efficient system and awareness oversees it. If we think we are feeling and thoughts then they rule us and the system is out of control when the awareness is not in charge. The awareness, the I, is watching the show and must control from where it is and not get overpowered by and can control the emotions. Without understanding emotions they rule us. It is the other leg we stand on besides reason, which we have to get back from also to see the whole picture. Is that pretty clear? You will believe the importance of that when you see the results. Seeing is believing, testing is proof. This is just my poor attempt to explain how everything works. A condensed and poorly worded overview for sure.

Answer 3

I can guess this caused a great deal of mental ordeal to you, but there is something to learn nevertheless.

What you've experienced is a series of events, apart from being in chain reaction with each other, what you could call "ties that bind"; they are a number of triggers which affect the way you (and possibly others) think. As unfortunate it is that you've encountered such issues, it has also opened your eyes for something else.

Some call it Genesis, some call it "hitting bottom" (which hasn't really been accomplished by any sane person yet). It is a greater mental state of awareness and understanding which is acquired through pure wisdom which is accumulated by living problems through and realizing that they have been nothing but "ties that bind" your mind. It lies at the bottom of the ying-yang funnel where the bright spot is, just like the "light at the end of the tunnel". The person snatches a new point of view from the hands of the universe through experiencing such difficulties:

Nothing at all can stand against willpower ( / determination).

Unless people awaken to a stronger feeling of consciousness, they will find themselves lost, steering between scylla and charybdis whereas one who has set up their mind has a chartered course to follow.

People should rid all memoies off strong emotions, for they keep that which makes them human confined. Emotions should be like the burst of a firework; self-effective, yet instantaneous. No one has ever deemed something useful by clinging onto their memories. It's just about looking ahead and asking yourself: what do you really want, and how can you get it (done) ?

Remember, if it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger.

Answer 4

Dear daughter,
First you must ask yourself if you believe in God, the Almighty. Nothing happens without His Will. Although most incidents occur with some logical reasoning, but you couldn't expect everything to happen with reasons which you could see with you bare eyes. Some happening need others senses; your inner feeling which you should associate with the Will of God. Sometimes recalling past incidents could throw some light into revealing the answer. Or it could be a reminder from the God Almighty. Or maybe He is calling us to appealing our sins or wrongdoings. All after all if you ask for guidance from the Lord Almighty, He may show you the right path.

Answer 5

Our actions cause some reactions. We also meet with accidents. These reactions and accidents bring ups and downs in our lives. This is what life is and how it goes on. These reactions and accidents effect our thoughts and behavior.
Now our test is that how we behave while dealing with the ups of our lives as well as downs. If we have realistic approach towards life and always expect and accept these as realities of life and think and act rationally, while dealing with these, we get success. Otherwise a failure; not only here but in hereafter as well.
Optimism sometimes breaks you down. The prayers strengthen our courage.

Answer 6

I dont know when it will end, but sounds like my life, I just pray and thank God for what I do have, and ask him to please relieve me of the things I cannot handle. I am not a religious person, just a spiritual one. I ask angels to please guide my steps and help me make better decisions so i dont have future grief as a repercussion. And i give all the "big" stuff to GOD and ask for his mercy, I thank him for trusting me with so much, but admit its more than I can handle ( you know that saying" God never gives you more than you can handle, tell him you CAN'T- at least not all at the same time) Good Luck, and I truly hope things turn around for you! Best Wishes

Answer 7

i agree with nirvanasound. it is the way your choose to live your life. Just look on the bright side. Things aren't as bad as you think they are. You're just stressing yourself for nothing. Just forget about it and move on. Think about happy things, things that will make you happy and less melancholy. So many bad things happened in your life, are happening in your life, and will happen in your life. You just have to learn to forget them, thing of the good side, and just continue with life happy and excitied for the great future.

Answer 8

the car and the washer are mechanical problems... a little maintenance will work for those.

if we knew why people got cancer we'd be a lot closer to a cure...

it doesn't matter when they die, it's never a good time.

as for the paternal father, talk just between you three and then talk to him...

Answer 9

i don't know when it will end - i wish i did.

i think it is just random coincidence, but it is clumping up. Believe it or not, that clumping is random, too.

for now, practice meditation and deep breathing.

wish i could help more.

Answer 10

i believe life has no destiny but you must make life the way you want it

and i am sorry but every bad has a good