My Opinion: I'm a 20-year-old virgin dating a virgin. I'm waiting for marriage not because of religion. I was raised with parents that taught me to hold off until marriage. I made my own decision later on. I want to stay a virgin until I find the man that will want to spend the rest of his life with me. Haha, he'll be extremely special for obvious reasons!
I would love to hear everyone's opinions on this matter! =D
2007-08-15 19:03:04 · 19 answers · asked by SuperFox 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Stay a virgin. You will be happy with yourself and with your mate when the time comes on your wedding night! I wish that I would have taken my own advice but let my boyfriend convince me otherwise and I ended up marrying him. I should have waited for oh so many reasons. He didn't deserve to be my first. That reason I just described to you is not the reason for you to stay a virgin. It is not a good one but for me it means something that I regret to this day. I can tell you, though, that if you wait until your wedding day, you will always be thankful that you did wait and I am sure that who ever becomes your husband will be proud of you, also. Good Luck, Dear!
2007-08-15 19:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
To answer your question, whether a potential mate is a virgin or not shouldn't matter, and doesn't matter to me. There are so many aspects to forming a bond and a relationship with someone, it would be almost impossible to say "this person is perfect for me, except he/she is (or isn't) a virgin."
Having said that, waiting for marriage is admirable. During my teen years, I thought that I would wait until I was married also. It didn't work out that way for me (I lost it at 20). Life has a way of sneaking up on you sometimes, and there's nothing wrong with that as long as you're safe.
Good for you :)
2007-08-15 19:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As you can see, you won't get a lot of support in taking this route. Good luck though, you will spare yourself heartache and pain, and possibly other problems.
I applaud you and your guy for having made that decision. It's not crazy, its quite normal. People get so tied up in what THEY want for THEMSELVES that they worry about whether they are physically compatible with there partner, instead of realizing that part of the bond of a relationship is the knowledge that both of you are solely committed to the other.
So while all these people that hold no standard, or don't "believe" in marriage, laugh and disdain your lifestyle, remember that your commitment is beyond respecting yourself. It's about respecting your future, your husband, and you children.
2007-08-16 19:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Musicman 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a unusual question. i'm no longer an atheist yet i'm inquisitive approximately why this question is directed to atheists. With the final ethical climate being what it incredibly is interior the international, maximum folk could assume that their skill mate replaced into no longer a virgin.
2016-10-15 12:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by finnigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a virgin, however I would like a woman who was not a virgin simply because of lack of experience.
2007-08-19 09:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sirius70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think people make too much of a fuss over virginity, and sex for that matter. Sex can be meaningful even if one has already been "deflowered," and sometimes the best sex has no meaning at all.
2007-08-15 19:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not looking for a virgin. I want someone who has been out and seen what there is out there in the world so if we do decide to tie the knot it'll be certain. Not like if we lost our virginity to each other and that question always haunts around " what if".
2007-08-15 19:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Just keep breathin' 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm a 14 year old virgin who's dating.
I am gonna wait till marriage because i simply want too.
I want to make sure that this girl is the one i want to be with forever before i become "defloured" with her......
So yeah, i think its a great idea that your waiting til marriage, i congratulate you
2007-08-15 19:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
I am not married, not a virgin and wouldn't care one way or the other because it just doesn't matter to me.
2007-08-15 19:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to be honest I am quite disappointed .... since you say it is not due to religion I assume that means not due to a relationship /love/respect for the Lord. Hmmm...well...if thats not why...your screwed without a man so it doesn't really matter..Good luck with that one. Try God and you won't need another opinion. You'll KNOW the answer.
2007-08-15 19:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by Godsent 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋