i just cant sleep knowing that my future is on someone's esle hand.im going to borrow money from a friend, believe it or not,the money he'll give me will make me rich for the rest of my life 100$ granateed, he doesnt know that tho, so everytime igo to sleep i think what if he changed his mind or just travel all of a sudden then what ?
second thing,i lost my passport and im about to travel , the gov wants to make an interview with me asking alot of Qs to see if i sold the passport or not,
so the person whos going to interview me is kind ill get the passport soon, if not then i might miss another semster off college, just wiating for the passport,
what if the gov wont pay for my college ? they'll be accepting applications next week . what if they didnt accept me ? what if they did but to another country ...etc
so basically,im at some point of my life where all my future plans are on someone esle hands, too much what if's..
i just dont know what to do anymore.
2007-08-15 16:52:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You seem to be in the mode of completely relying on others to determine your fate.
You must be more proactive in establishing your life goals and working diligently to achieve them.
Sitting back and waiting for help usually results in disappointment and failure.
2007-08-16 03:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well the answer above was pretty lame, so I'll say this;
Sometimes, unfortunately, we have to rely on others for advancement in our lives. My best advice would be to chill out a bit... there is really no use in worrying if you don't have a reason to do it! What you're saying is speculation, not fact. Try and take it easy, and keep a lil busy in the meantime, so you don't go crazy thinking about this. If the "bomb" drops, then there is reason to worry, and in that case no one can help but you. For now try and relax, and just picture everything working out exactly as planned. I have faith that it will ;P
2007-08-16 08:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you eating something with caffeine interior the evenings? yet another element is that if something is stressing you out. it could additionally be puberty. The organic time your physique needs to sleep is shifting later at evening. If it incredibly is this reason there is not any longer something you're able to do approximately it.
2016-10-15 12:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insomnia (sleeplessness) is due to stress,
dietary and medical problems. By making
small lifestyle changes like having a fixed
daily routine, relaxing and eating properly,
insomnia can be cured. I found the information
at http://www.nosleep.in/insomniacause.html
2007-08-18 18:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first why do you have to go over seas to go to college lots of the same stuff here, also sounds like you worry a bit much just take a deep breath an relax some,people lose theur pass ports all the time. your going to be ok
2007-08-23 13:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happens when you depend on others and not yourself. Why should your future plans be in anyone else's hands but yourself. A conscious is a MF. God Bless.
2007-08-22 00:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to pray and get some sleep. God can really help you out in times of need!
2007-08-20 09:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by kristen_who 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that was a week ago, and you've slept since then, so I hope things are more in perspective by now.
2007-08-23 09:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say: Expect the worst, and hope for the best. That way you're never disappointed.
2007-08-23 12:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jinxyblue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are just the first of many what-ifs you'll have for the rest of your life!
2007-08-23 14:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋