Basically I am envyous of everyone I am short I am fat I am black I am ugly I dont really have any "friends" but if you were to say I have any its hard for me to be around them ones a model ones a aspiring sreen play writer and me I am just trying to go to school. On top of that I go to school in Thailand were the people hate black people everytime I go out I just feel so uncomfortable in my skin I hate my body and I hate being black I hate being poor I hate everything... And I hate everyone because they got it so much better than me and I know everyone is going to say that their are people in the world that have things a hundred times worse than me but I dont know them I know me and I know my feelings and right now I feel like I am going to die.
2007-08-15 16:43:47 · 3 answers · asked by Brian H 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
its all a part of life, you will develop and get over it as you age
2007-08-15 16:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Brian, try not to think of yourself as abnormal because you are expressing some really common feelings that many of us have gone through or are still going through.
Your life will not always be like this. Finding your place in the world can be tough especially when you don't know how you fit into the scheme of things.
Brian, you have to pick yourself up and find your own joy and work toward the things that you really want in life.
Give yourself a break, try and look at your situation from the outside looking in.
Chin up :-)
2007-08-15 23:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Envy is a symptom of ego.
Our ego propels us toward desiring what we don't need; because we think we need it for a rise in status.
It is almost like trying to keep up financially with the wealthiest person around. Or being boss even if you don't yet have the experience needed to do the job.
It is a fruitless activity and if you could succeed, you STILL wouldn't be happy.
Recognize it for what it is.
Pursue what truly makes you happy.
Control what you can and ignore the rest. You can't change others, it is hard enough to change yourself. Those who would ridicule you for being short (or for other differences) are the ones with character flaws. Realize they have a LOT of growing up to do. Some will still act like children when they are forty.
Strive to accomplish by using your talent and endeavor to improve on those talents. Don't cheat.
Getting there by cheating is NOT satisfying.
2007-08-16 00:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Philip H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋