What kind of woman knowingly dates a married man?

Question

What kind of whore does that? I mean really. How can a woman with three children of her own, do that to another family? I am already divorcing him. I had the papers drawn up 2 days after I found out. He is out on his asss. I will take him for everything he has in court.

But, what kind of woman would do that? I can't for the life of me, imagine doing that to someone's family. I could never knowingly date a married man, especially one with small children. What kind of a person does that?

What kind of desperate whore could do something like that?

Answer 1

Don't focus on her - he was lying to you, you don't know what kinds of lies he told her . . . point is HE took those vows, HE has a wife, HE has young children. What kind of man is HE? How could HE do that? Keep focusing on that when you take this to court . . .

I wish you and your children peace and healing.

Answer 2

It's the responsibility of the husband and wife to respect and protect their vows. You don't know what your husband said or his motivation. Sorry, that it happened. For a person who has never been married. I know married men who doesn't even wear their wedding rings, men who are still seeking another and others who openly have girlfriends. I'm kind of scared to get married because I hear and see too much drama in relationships. I think people like the idea and the preparation of getting married but not actual being married. I don't know... I've learned that no matter what, you have to make sure your life is straight so if doesn't work out you will still be alright. P.S men can also be whores... they just don't know how to get away from getting caught. I guess you caught yourself a bad fish. I also learned that regardless, people will do what they WANT to do. Sorry
For those who are respecting their vows... Your awesome!!!!

Answer 3

Life can sometimes be cruel. A married person especially a woman who commits adultery is unthinkable and immoral. It all boils down to the character of both the woman and the man entering an illicit affair. They don't deserve the respect of their families. Do they? It is very hard to fathom their reason for hurting their loved ones. They are just self-centered and insensitive.

If you believe divorcing your husband is your best option, then go on. Choose an option, a practical and intelligent one that will make your life more bearable Go girl!

Answer 4

How do you know that she knew? I was with a man who convinced me this women wouldn't leave him alone. Then I confronted her and while I was with her he called her phone. She filled me in on how unhappy he was with me and that we were seperating, he said we had seperate rooms. I left him and so did she after the truth was revealed. She was a victim just as much as I was.
Maybe they were both married and unhappy and thought they could keep their marriages together if they were getting satisfied in what they felt was a safe affair as they were both married.
I have a friend that was only with one man her whole life, 28 yrs old. She met a man who she thought was a wonderful man and after about 6 months she gave into him. He had a very demanding and respectful job so he was away on bussiness quit a bit. She was so in love. Come to find out, he was married with children. She was devistated but he kept telling her how horrible his wife was and he was going to leave. Months became yrs. He wasn't leaving his wife but she wanted to believe the dream he was telling her and she did but she wasn't a whore, she was a victim too. He hurt and betrayed both women..
Another girl I knew was with a married man and she knew and just didn't care, she was hooked on crack and took what she could get, on a side note, she was also sexualy abused since she was 6 yrs old by a brother, uncle and a neighbor.
Maybe this women is on her own with 3 children and he showed her respect and gave her emotional support and gave her hope. Maybe she was sexually abused during her childhood and doesn't know about healthy relationships.
Maybe she let her guard down and your husband took what he could get. No matter what the answer, you married him and believed in him
This is what leads me to say, it is always your partner that is responsible. If not her it would have been another women. He deserves to be thrown out but I was just answering your question of what kind of women would do that and it is usualy the kind of women that has already been victamized or is the victim of your husband.
I don't blame you for your anger but the words that are being thrown around here by yourself and other Yahoo Answers about this relationship that we know nothing about and this women that we know nothing about, if she was lied to or what her situation was,,,, it is just disturbing to see how quick a crowd can be turned against another, it is like the witch burnings of past. I believe there is only one who will judge and he made it very clear that anyone who judges another will be judged the same. You say you will take him for all he has? What are you teaching your children with that attitude? Are they hearing you use such horrible words and are you abusing there minds with stuff they are to young to understand? What are they learning,,,,,, an eye for eye? Sorry,,,,, he is wrong and hurt you very badly, your anger is justified. I just hope your kids do not become victims out of all this as you are both the adults, handling adult situations and what he did should not be subjected on innocent kids.

Answer 5

You started to answer your own question -- desperation. Desperation, poor decision-making, and low self-esteem. I think people who cheat are not thinking about the consequences of what they are doing to the other partners, children and the people around them. I have read stories about women so desperate for a man, they actually delude themselves into thinking that the cheating man who leaves his wife will never pull the same crap on them.

Make his life miserable in court. Get all you can, and do what you need to make sure he doesn't skip out and become a deadbeat dad.

Answer 6

Sweetheart first try to breath. I know your pain. I am divorced 2 years, because he cheated on me. I questioned the same thing while I was hurt. But as I healed I thought back to situations when I was in the same boat. Now I don't know the details, so I am assuming here. However, in my situation I didn't know the whole truth. You really don't know what lies he was feeding her. Really the fault is with him not here. She didn't cause him to cheat, he did cuz he was selfish and wanted to satistfy his needs without taking in consideration who it would hurt. I didn't know the truth, the guy told me he was divorcing and his wife was horrible and hated him, they hadn't had sex in months and they were just living together momentarily for the kids and due to the finances, until the courts rule. And yes I believed it. When I found out the truth I was very much in love with him. His wife hated me and later in life I felt/understood her paid, but I would not have ever intentionally hurt someone's marriage. I know it is hard sweetie, but the best thing is to go to talk to someone about your feelings. I did and it helped me in so many other areas, other than divorce and marriage.

Good luck.

Answer 7

When I was in my twenties, in college, I answered a roommate ad. This woman dated 3 married men in the year that I lived there. It was truly out of my realm of understanding! I don't think she was capable of a reality-based perception of the "family." She only seemed to get a thrill (can't think of a better word) of the clandestine quality of the relationship... the forbidden.. Also, it seemed like a married man did not interfere in her life too much... sort of like her boundaries for intimacy were way out there. she wasn't comfortable with real intimacy (even in her friendship with me) and so was able to maintain "distance" while having a kind of "pretend" relationship.
I have no idea if this relates to your "other" woman, but thought I'd share it with you.. perhaps it will help you to lay to rest some of your uneasiness.. You have a long road of recovery to go through this pain and betrayal.
I send you many prayers.

Answer 8

Well you cant blaime her completly you dont know exactly what your husband was telling her he might have told her that you were divorced already or she might have just found out he was married but if she already knew he was married than she is an idiot and a heartless person to do that to another woman and her family but hey thats her soul that will be burning in hell

Answer 9

I think someone with very low self esteem. Definatley a homewrecking skank.
I can't get my head around what people do to each other sometimes.
And there is never any excuse for a spouse to cheat on their partner. If they are not happy in the marriage they should leave rather than hurt someone like that.
It's not your fault!
I hope you have someone to talk to who can support you through such a rough time.

Answer 10

Someone who is delusional enough to think he'll stay with her when the dust settles-Chin up if he got caught it probably wasn't the first time. you don't really want to be married to a womanizing louse of a man? Spend no more time worrying over what kind of tramp she is and what type of louse this man is. You have 3 kids, you are now offically part of the single mommy hustle, you will be tired, you will cry, you will survive! good luck

Answer 11

Just that "a desperate w h o r e". If they knowingly date a married man, it's for selfish reasons and they think only of themselves and what it is that THEY want. Forget the kids or home it will hurt, they careless about it. The shame is...she won't stay with him (chances are). She'll find someone else and move on when the spark and newness of the relationship gets old. I'm sorry! She will reap what she sows one day...they always do!