2007-08-15 14:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
particularly on business trips.
2007-08-15 14:13:51 · update #1
yes it would. I guess if he told me he was going to it would help a bit. My bigger issue would be why does he feel the need to. If he's not happy at home then I want to know about it!
2007-08-15 14:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would definatley bother me. weather or not he was honest about it. its the same as cheating. believe it or not, (i'm not a big religious fanatic) but it says so in the bible. to lust after another woman is the same as commiting adultry, even if he never touches her. this is why women get mad when thier husbands or boyfriends hang out a strip clubs. even though he's not touching another woman, its still wrong. he's walking the line, doing just enough to make himself look innocent, but just enough to get himself in trouble. and when women dont care if thier men are going to strip clubs and such, its because they are guilty of some form of adultry themselves. some couples are never guilty of adultry, and dont care what thier spouses do. but, if this is happening to you, and you are upset about it, dont think that you dont have a reason to be upset, because it definatley is wrong if you feel in your heart that it is wrong. and if this is happeneing to you, dont punish your husband for doing what he's doing. instead, try to find out why he's doing what he's doing by asking him.
2007-08-15 21:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 51 m my take on strip clubs i never went. its like going to a resterant and not being able to eat.
2007-08-15 21:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by falon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-08-15 21:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by philosophy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would bother me to know he even drove into the parking lot of one of the sleaze holes.
2007-08-16 04:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was every day or every week then yes. But if its like once every two weeks then I would have no problem.
2007-08-15 22:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course it would! That's sneaky and he is not being true to you. Sorry dear I wonder how he would feel if it was the opposite if: you doing that him....
2007-08-15 21:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Darla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would bother me.
2007-08-15 21:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he had been dishonest about it. I don't tolerate lying because it simply destroys relationships.
2007-08-15 21:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by ogle2426 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd wonder why he hasn't invited me LOL I'd ask if I can come too
2007-08-15 21:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by nikki92530 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋