Also she has a 15 year old son because she is divoced but it wasn't her fault. The reason why she got divorced was cause she found out that her ex husband was dating behind her back and her son lives with her ex husband,and her son is 15 and I am 23.Also this women is related to me by marriage already because she is my sister-in-law's cousin by blood. So we are already related by marriage.I had a crush on her since I was 13, wich was when my brother first met his wife who is now my sister-in-law, and now our family and her family are all family now. My sister-in-law's cousin has known me since I was 13 and she does not know that I have had a crush on her all these years. I even remeber when her son was 5 years old at that time when my brother was getting engaged to her cousin. Now I am 23 and she is 38 and I still have a crush on her. Am I still allowed to marry her? Because she is my sister-in-law's cousin by marriage. So we are already related through marriage. Is it still allowed?
2007-08-15 14:00:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really do love this woman you go ahead and marry her.She is not related to you in anyway but just remember she is at the age where her looks are going to go way and you will still look and be young.But if that doesn't better you or her then go for it.
2007-08-15 14:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHOAAAAAAAAAAA yes u can marry her legally, but really? Do u at 23 really want to get into this spider web? I wish you the best, and as a mom I would say take it slow and truly think about this decision. Sounds like a life full of DRAMA darlin
2007-08-15 14:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by jungljn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really does not make you guys "related".
And the age doesn't make a difference, at this time in your life.
If she's ok with it and you are ok with it, go for it.
Maybe if you are still feeling this strongly for her, you need to see what would come out of a relationship between you 2.
But no, you are not related :)
2007-08-15 14:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you think you will save her? Do you think you will walk in there and life will be so much better for her? I hate seeing young men get involved with vampires. You have a life to live and explore...She is too old..The woman I was at 23 and who I am now..different. If she is still trying to live as if she is 23 both of you will have a rude awakening. If she is encouraging you...I would say run like your back is on fire. You will live to regret this.
2007-08-15 14:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by CherryCheri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah ain't nothing wrong with that age ain't nothing but a number, and if you love her and you won't her to be your's forever go for it, but you should take in to consideration that she is older than you and later on down the road you might find yourself wanting a younger woman.
2007-08-15 14:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Miss L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys aren't related by blood so you could still marry each other. Your not really "related". They don't even usually consider cousins of in-laws as relations to you. Like my sister-in-laws cousins I do not consider myself related to them, I don't even know them. I don't consider any of my sister-in-laws family as related to me so no you guys aren't considered family or even related.
2007-08-15 14:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jessy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not even going to bother reading the rest of your question it is that bad.
There is nothing stopping you from marrying her. BUT WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU WANT TO DO IT?
IF YOU MARRY HER...THINGS WILL NOT BE GOOD!!
2007-08-15 14:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ok for you to marry a women age 38 , if she is loaded ....
if she poor den forget it .....
age is not a problem .... in the first place do you love her or her money ??
it ok for you
i support you to marry her ... why not , if i will you i go for it ..
dun wait anymore ..... ....
maybe you try for few year ... after that you feel tire , you just dump her , ok ..... no need to pay , you enjoy the lifestyle and sex with her ...
it free anyway .... remember wipe your mouth ..hahahahaha
2007-08-15 15:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by alvin k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEGALLY you can marry her but, do you want to? Do not let a crush turn into a mistake.
2007-08-15 14:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Shwig 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
age means nothing- as long as your both legal
2007-08-15 14:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋