During a marriage, is it ok for a wife to have a male best friend (not related) who is not her husband?
how bour for men? is it ok for them to have a female best friend (not related) who is not their wife?
how bout in relationships is it ok if your boyfriend/girlfriend is best friends with a person of their opposite gender who is not related to them?
2007-08-15 12:59:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't tell you how many time I have heard this "just friends" stuff that ended up in an affair. You can be friends but relate to through your spouse. If you going to movies and out to dinner with your "friend" you can put your marriage in jeopardy.
2007-08-15 13:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by mjohnson1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea for a married person to have a male/female as a best friend not if you want your marriage to work. I don't care what anyone tells you a male cannot look at a female best friend or not without wanting to have sex with her. You marry your best friend and that is the only one you should want to have.
2007-08-15 13:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is a friend that the person has had for a long time and before the marriage, i think that's ok. however, there is no reason that a married person should be picking up new friends of the opposite sex after marriage.
2007-08-15 13:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend has been the same since I was in highschool, he is a married man. I'm a single woman (divorced) I am the godmother of his oldest daughter as well as his oldest granddaughter. I'm obviously friends with his wife. He and I have been best friends for almost 40 years.
2007-08-15 17:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a spouse/husband/or somebody in relation must be the terrific buddy and have the different as their terrific buddy. in the event that they are not like that then, the relationship probable won't final and is not any longer stable. that individual needless to say isn't happy with whom they're with. in the event that they have an extremely stable buddy it is the different intercourse it is high quality...all of it has to do with their social existence. yet a human beings companion should not be terrific friends with everybody yet their companion or who they're with
2016-10-15 11:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When spouses have jobs outside the home, it is likely there will be friendships with the opposite sex.
2007-08-15 13:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Willie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends yes, but best friends should be the person you are married to, or living with. If the OTHER is your best friend, sex will happen and that is a fact. good luck!
2007-08-15 13:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will accept that my husband/bf has a female best friend IF she was his friend before our relationship started.....other then that, I will not approve of a 'female best friend' if him and I are already together. I do not mind female 'friends' but NOT a ''best friend'' if he already has me.
2007-08-15 13:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been friends with this guy for 7 years and now I am engaged. We are all friends and my fiance has no problem with it.
2007-08-15 13:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Girl Rylin 5/3/08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebel, never works unless she's a dog
2007-08-15 13:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by LordVader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋