What is my sexuality???

Question

I am a female.

I only think of being with guys when it comes to romance and love but I only think of being with girls when it comes to lust and what makes me horny...

Answer 1

u sound bi

Answer 2

You considering as Bisexuality, that mean you interest on both men and woman.

Answer 3

Deffinitely Bi. You can not really put a label on that. you are who you are and not anything more or less then that

Answer 4

Weird.

Answer 5

Now, observe here, this might be extensively put and stressed in such a way as to risk pedagogy. But this is Yahoo Answers, and every so often I hear a humdrum that warrants a new if different drummer.

Now, on your sexuality I say this -- don't do labels and categories, for these are but constructs put upon you by you and by other minds and got up by corrupted points of views, which abstraction we call society, and which predictive habit ever undertakes to put what is Nature into some neat form and function, for whom a person not conforming is constrained to either make a construct again that suits that which sets outside of him or her and not within.

When you like what you like, when you like a thing, when you like someone -- you must let yourself know !

This: you are both or neither of these, and you may well come to know that you are or are not any of these yet much more that surely society has yet to learn, for society is a cumbersome thing. Yet one who is attuned to oneself is always quicker, always ahead.

What you are, what your nature is, is as well existent in millions of others, and has been so for thousands upon thousands of years before we all were born. They, too, of the past millennia remanded themselves to silence or incessant questioning. Yet they resolved to themselves.

Nature is what it is...

Is Life only and merely some two things -- well, of course not. Life is a multitude, consisting of infinite permutations -- and 'leanings' or 'orientations,' as it were.

All you have in you and in your very expressions and impressions is Nature being Nature, and the quicker you or anyone should acknowledge that, the sooner will the energies and their directions and flows align you and them quite naturally, and which yield will again be but a Natural Occurrence -- completely healthy and normal -- no matter what this is. Ay -- you may be already aligned. Your orientation presently may be just exactly what it is supposed to and must be in any case: my estimation is that this is the case.

All this stuff of morality, and wrongness, and all other manner of hyperbole has nothing to do with nature, much less has it to do with what truly is this dynamic thing, the human being, is...

If there were some innate and violence in bisexuality, or polysexuality as well, you can rest assured that such would have been wiped out thousands of years before this time, not by Man/Woman, but by Nature itself, for Nature has its own mitigating forces for anything that is inharmonious to itself and life. But, know that Nature loves to experiment. The experiment that was the dinosaurs were testament to this. But these got out of hand and thus Nature took them out ! Nature, though, had learned what it needed to.

Now, your dilemma on your sexuality, if one can frame it as such, is that you are not accepting it yet -- by proof and dint of your questioning of it. Such as this is the herd instinct in any person, which foists conformity, which is but an alignment with what is innately unbalanced in itself and in the first place: it is the collective consciousness, that which sets outside, and which always seeks approval; a penchant for fallacy -- that is, the ' listening to the appeal. '

Accept that you prefer romance with men and "lust" with women, and become honest with yourself more and more about this, and more and more will you come into alignment within if you are not already.

For that's part of the objective and why you are "what" you are [whatever the 'what' implied here could possibly mean]. Your sexuality's whole purpose is to have you to confront and embrace this or, say, whatever a certain thing is, so as to achieve of balance on that one point or energy or blockage, or whatever you wish to call it...

Think about it: one's preferred sexuality is as arbitrary a tool for learning as any other, isn't it? Of course!

What is an electrical current but the yielding of two polarities, to produce and carry of a certain permutation or purpose --the current itself is one -- and which ' expresses,' and can express, in innumerable ways? Thus electricity is what we know it is -- and more we do not.

If you come into your own, and accept your own, and live by your own and don't disrupt others and don't allow others to disrupt you, then you outflank the conventions of billions of citizens and at once are you flung into living a dynamic life, light years the distance from others, and by this you do become a vanguard for Truth and demonstration on behalf of Truth, if by default -- by which I mean, in some measure might you face aloneness in your points of views but not necessarily devoid of the company of others: -- what you will have become is a warrior.

There live thousands of people of your same ilk, however, who think nothing of themselves, nothing as being underpinnings of dilemmas for which re-tooling is in order or that there exists some problem or innate deviance that must be 'corrected,.' or for which ascribing some label or category fulfills of anything constructive.

Not few on our planet are as you are. It is all part of nature itself, for everyone has these selfsame qualities, whether dormant or not. It is potential: the sexual force in anyone must have its egress and opportunity to do so -- naturally -- and Nature would not be so poor an engineer as to only provide some one avenue by which this energy might be released and expressed.

When you dare deny or tamper with your own innate forces, and frequencies, and signatures existent there inside you, you are trifling and tampering with considerably native forces that are otherwise meant to be there, and for exacting reasons, often without your or anyone's knowing why.

Ours is a mysterious universe and will have its way and above all is it determined to act with and in evidence of Freedom, and to import light to us each first, that we each in turn can import that same to others.

One's sexuality is no more or less than what it is -- homo', bi', or poly'...

Answer 6

i think you might be bi sexual, or just straight, but since your acctracted to guys ur noy homo.

Answer 7

the term is bi curious.

Answer 8

I think you are bisexual

Answer 9

you could be biosexual.....you should experiment

Answer 10

bisexual