Do men SERIOUSLY think Nothing of Naked Breasts on the beaches in France, or anywhere else?

Question

I don't agree with that, I don't believe it for one second that the guys there do Not compare and Do Not think sexual arousing thoughts, EVER when they see the women, pardon, Baring it All! That's Crazy

I would like some opinions, REAL, Open&OPINIONS only please, About THIS Subject, not about me, or about what I think really too much, but what YOU are thinking. Women too, ones that go topless and ones that don't, what the Heck! is going through your mind? Do You too, not think that you are a Sexual being and baring your breasts to men in public, of course! they are going to say it doesn't bother them, Why the heck Would it!... come on... You don't find that At ALL demoralizing that your guy looks at other women half naked all over beaches walking around with their breast hanging out as your guy, husband whatever is right there next to a girl or girlS with No TOPS ON!!!??? ARE YOU SERIOUS!!??? And you are OK... with your guy talking to some other girl that has no top on??? Is this True

Some people may get on here and call me "prude" or other things,but I'm not name calling you or mocking anyone here, Ijust believe What I Believe, as you do, so bashing would be appreciated. That's Not what I'm looking for here...

Thanks ahead of time.

haha... ok ok, Yes, of I meant. NO Bashing.

Thank You.

Answer 1

Men just say that to ease women's inhibitions and conscience so that they will do it. These guys aren't stupid. If they make asses out of themselves, then the women will be upset and won't show it. But if the guys feed them bullcrap about how natural and insignificant the breasts are, so show them, well they're gonna show them. Also, the women,who claim they don't mind if their men look, say this because there isn't anything they can do about it or get off of it because he gets off of it.

Answer 2

I know what you mean but, believe me, it is a question of getting used to it. In Europe it is quite common. My partner exposed her breasts when were on the beach in Portugal and at first I was a bit jealous but got used to it. My "revenge" was that I had plenty to look at, LOL !! Do we guys have sexual thoughts when faced with those ? Of course. But then we have sexual thoughts by looking at a female with a super body with a full bathing suit on. The best thing to do is to inspect the beach from the top before venturing onto it. If there are topless women and you don't feel comfortable then choose another beach. It depends on whether you are conservative which is OK or not which is also OK too.

Answer 3

It is just a human body. We Europeans are very liberal about these things, none more so than the French. When you see this all the time, you don't really care. And why be ashamed to expose the human body, nature's finest creation? Why not be proud of it?

There are still (thankfully) people who walk around naked routinely in this world, with no shame. Places where people with clothes would be seen as "having something to hide." And why not talk to a topless girl? There is nothing sexual about breasts if they are not covered up all the time.

Answer 4

I sunbathe topless when I go abroad. I don't want lines do I?

Men lust after me whether I'm wearing a top or not and not coz I'm super attractive coz that's what men do (most men).

If my husband looks at other half naked women on the beach so what? They're probably much prettier, younger and less saggy than me. I'm not understanding you. What is wrong with a bit of eye candy? No one ever got fat from looking in the cake shop window.

It's not like any of them would make a play for him is it? And if they did he'd say no. He's got me.

Answer 5

I did topless and didn't notice any...lumps in my ....neighbours shorts and they weren't staring or drooling...and I did that in Romania.
In our days you see more boobs on the streets in UK with all the see-through tops these girls wear..
I don't see why I should put a scarf on my fiance's eyes...I might look at one time at a very good looking man.
We have eyes to see and if you feel like that I think you are either jealous or insecure.

Answer 6

Breasts just aren't thought of the same way in France as they are in America. In some parts of the world showing your hair is considered a very sexual act, but in America it isn't. Think of it the same way.

Answer 7

i couldn't be bothered to read the lot but something to do with what i feel about women going topless on the beach. Its fantastic, keeps you entertained for hours.

Plus there is a fantastic game for the whole family. Spot the fake boobs, requires being discreet by getting a good look but without being noticeable. Play it next time your on any beach, the number of fakes in france is astonishingly high.

Answer 8

No, I don't find it demoralising..I find it normal.
I am comfortable enough with my Husband to knew that of course he has a look, but I don't feel threatened by it.
I used to go topless, and I didn't ever feel like a sexual object

But you are entitled to your opinion on it, although I feel if you had enough confidence in yourself, it wouldn't upset you so much!!!!!

Answer 9

i would say some men do not think of boobs in a sexual way, after all they are for antother purpose.
but in all honesty i agree with you lol
on the other hand dont forget that some women will walk around with no tops on with the intent of getting this attention.
its catch 22 i suppose

Answer 10

It may be a novelty at first but that soon wears off and one honestly takes no notice of the bare breasts.