Whats the best solution to MY Smashed Middle Finger?

Question

Four days ago I smashed my finger in my car door. I was leaning against my car to move out of the way of a passing car (with my hand on the front driverside door), my body shut the back door with my middle finger sticking out so that the hinge side of the door shut on it. It immediately pushed it out. And.. it was quite painful.
So far I've tried to continue to ice it, and take pain relievers. Today there has been no pain, but I can still feel the pressure.
At first it was a very light blue at the bottom of the nail, with a dark blue spot in the middle. As the days went by, the dark blue spot grew and is now just at the top of the nail and past it.. The rest of the nail is a bluish grey color. My mother says it will be fine, but my father says I should see a doctor.
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Answer 1

Well one thing is for certain you are going to lose that nail, it will hurt, and most likely does now, and it will take months for it to grow back