What happens to one who wants to fit in and be normal but always fails and miserable with his life?

Answer 1

They discover they are not alone and have an epithany, find a productive outlet for their unique talents and change the world surrounding them for the better.

Answer 2

Eventually you stop trying to fit in to a certain group and stop trying to be someone you aren't. When you are your own person you are naturally happier and more successful. We all have a gift/talent that we eventually discover either through seeking it out or by accident. Join groups with similar interests to your own, explore options, don't give up. It just takes meeting one new person who likes the same things you do. They usually know people who also have the same interests. You never fail until you quit trying! Hang in there! You will succeed! =)

Answer 3

eventually you have to evaluate the reasons why you want to fit in, and who you are trying to fit in with. Then you have to evaluate why you are not succeeding at this, and then you have to make some real life choices about who you are. If you are trying to be something you are not, and never could be, then you are basically lying to yourself and everyone around you, and other people pick up on that. Then you have to decide to what you can be happy and satisfied with, and don't make excuses anymore. You have to find out what integrity is and then show some for yourself.

Answer 4

You keep telling yourself that high school will be over before you know it and you can start a new adult life where you don't need to fit in to be normal. It's all part of growing up and becoming an adult, keep your head up and have fun while you are young with your true friends. Before you know it, these people will be nothing but a faded memory and you can laugh about it. Life goes on, make a difference and keep your chin up.

Answer 5

Come now, chin up, does any of us ever truly fit in? Many a great discoverer, artist, philosopher, inventor and scientist were not consider normal by many in society. As far as being miserable the only person who can change that is yourself with counselling, which i think you should think about.

Answer 6

every day we are put in situations that expose our strengths and weaknesses, this is life's pattern to bring about maturity, of mind, emotions and spirit. what is normal? no such thing ... everyone is on a learning curve, some stay longer in one stage than another. please don't try to 'fit in', it does you no favours because you are acting out how you expect others will 'approve' of you. you are an unique individual with character traits specific to you, explore them, own them and express them, no matter how others respond to you (not if they are anti-social though). Learn acceptance of who you are now and be at peace with yourself, the world needs you, just as you are. do not live in someone else's mould, it won't be comfortable. you are not failing, only seemingly so in your own mind. you have a spirit so learn to fill it, a mind so learn truth and good principles and live by them and a body which needs feeding well, exercise and like minded friends. God bless.

Answer 7

He/she will stop trying so much to fit in and just be themselves.
We are not supposed to be just a cookie cutter copy of every other person.
Human-being's being unique is not the worst thing in the universe.
And what if we all have the same face. We would stop at nothing to get out of the fit.

Answer 8

They plough their own path, they realise that always trying to fit in with the crowd is a sad sign, and fate has nasty ways with wallpaper and that the one thing worse than not being part of the in-crowd, is being an ejected from same! Or, they give up!

Answer 9

He/she will feel less miserable and feel happier and more positive toward the future when they stop trying to fit in and be like others and accept, like and value themself for the person they really are . Sometimes we have to like ourselves first and then others will follow suit and like and accept us for the person we are deep down. There will always be times in life when he want to fit in and feel we don't but as we get older we define our own personality and it seems less important somehow and more important to just be us !!

Answer 10

I suggest that person should go to someone and talk about his problems and what is causing him to feel this way. This person should not keep these feelings bottled up inside him, because then they just build up and make things worse. I also suggest that this person look into a personal relationship with God, because then this person would never be alone.