Who has it worst; GUYS or GIRLS? Why?

Question

Why do they have it worst? Come up with as many reasons why.

Me and and my friend are arguing over this debate!

Answer 1

this is soooo easy!
the answer is girls!
i regret to admit that it's soo easy to be a guy! and i give MAJOR props to girls who deliver kids, go through their "time of the month", mood swings [and cannot help it!!]
also, girls have to buy A LOT of things [and they can't help it either!] girls love to shop.. it's nature!! so they end up spending more money..
"traditionally", the girl cooks, takes care of the kids, cleans, etc etc etc.. again.. "traditionally" and a lot of women are still "traditional".. again.. it's difficult for the feminine gender...
the ONLY thing guys have to worry about is having a good job that pays enough to get through rent, food, and bills!! oh and i think the majority of guys are a little bit too "advanced in terms of hormones".. but that's the ONLY thing guys have to deal with!!!
girls have to look out for things like rape, abusiveness, breast cancer, their "time of the month" routine, girls are biologically less fit than men... again.. it's too easy being a guy!! =S
oh and then there's the nails!! when guys break nails, they dont hurt! but when girls break one! ouuuchh.!!! oh and dont even let me get into women rights and the history of it!! girls TODAY are in the SAME jobs as men, BUT GET PAID LESS!! what's up with that?!?! this is a generalization... but it's very true... umm and i think those are all the reasons i have.. hope i win! hahaha =]
major props to girls... you guys go through a lot.. and i'd love to respect that!!

Answer 2

Girls have it way harder because
we have periods= on the floor blood curdling pain
we give birth which over strecths our skin makes us gain weight and tears rips our private parts
society has a very specific way that they want us to look
we usually have longer hair and we can't just brush it up and go cause guys will think we don't look good
we are usually smaller usually
if we are smaller in body mass we get drunk quicker
we feel the pain of losing our virginity not the guys
we have some comfortable items like high heels and really tight shirts that we keep having to pull up
usually we get referred to in all of the yo mama jokes because only a woman can be a mother
women didn't use to have rights but men did they controlled everything a long time ago
we have men telling us what to do with our body's in the government like whether or not to have an abortion
we have really weird down there check ups . Imagine having things stuck in you?????
we have boobs and if they are big then buying a bra is horrible and plus men don't want fake boobs
some people still want us to be housewifes
in places like china women/girls are not valued because the men there think that the girls can't do work better
we get targeted by men in stripp clubs
the word bitoch is used in almost every song now and of course they are talking about a girl
we really suffer from alot of pain
we have books offending us like why men love bitchs seroiusly it really is a book
we our hard on our own sex woman always fight with each other to see who can do what best
the word whore is another one or hoe it is ment toward us
we gain weight and can't lose it for the way our bodys are made

Answer 3

It's really going to depend on your perspective and what kind of person you are, how you deal with issues and such. I know people say women are so emotional and that's hard to deal with, but what about guys emotions and how it's almost taboo for guys to show that much emotion, lest they look like a "sissy"? It can usually be thrown back and forth in most sides. Women have to deal with the pains and burdens of menstruation and child birth, but also have all of the control of keeping a child, regardless of whether the man wanted it or not. From the point of view of a man who wants to keep a child that his girlfriend/wife is pregnant with, what could be worse than her deciding anyway to have an abortion? In the job scene, it's tough to argue the man's lack of advantage in terms of equal pay. That still seems an issue where men have it better, in general. Issues can go back and forth and it's tough to judge so much in general. A lot can be based on the culture that you are living in, where you live, who you are, status, and such. I think we're all losing out until the point where we're all "winning".

Janicajayne: No such word as "worst"? What do you mean? The worst, as in nothing worse, kind of like the opposite of best, which is better than "better"? Worse is to Worst as Better is to ________.

Answer 4

Impossible answer, how are you going to answer if you only been one gender? Acourse girls think they have it harder, in relationships they always blame the man to. In the end we`re both the same, humans. I mean you people act like men don`t go through stuff to, girls are so stuck up, and often use us for our money. Girls get all the attention to, and they actually have friends to rely on. If girls have it so hard, why are so many guys turning into trannies? Also who said that you girls had to put on makeup? Most guys like girls without it anyways, most girls tend to make their life harder then it already is, and thats their fault for doing that. How many girls on here did you see actually stick up for men? Men always stick up for girls, they don`t do nothing for us men, and plus half the girls who answered couldn`t even name more then two answers of how they have it harder, it was the same answers over and over.

All a girl has to do is cry to get their way, if a guy cries he gets made fun of, the list can go on and on, but like I`m saying eventually we`re equal. We give girls so much and they still want more, that`s just how it is.

Answer 5

Absolutely MEN have it worse than women. Here is why:

1. Work - almost every man in America HAS to go to work all the time. Women have the realistic option of being a stay-at-home mother...how many men do we really know that have this opportunity? Not very many.
2. Household Chores: Yes, more often than not, women do most of the cleaning (though not in my situation)...however, men always get the tougher jobs such as lawn work, household repairs, automotive repairs, etc...
3. Fear of pedophilia: Women don't know what it's like to be a man, and have every person in the world look at you like some sort of child molester every time you are in the vicinity of children. Men are assumed to be creepy and weird unless proven otherwise.
4. Sex: men are the ones that are ALWAYS expected to perform...it is the man's resposibility to make sure that the woman is satisfied.
5. Payment: Men are supposed to PAY for everything. Movies, dinner, activities, etc....we are supposed to pick up the bill. Sometimes....that just sucks!
6. Special deals: There are always discounts at clubs/bars for LADIES NIGHT....how many times have you seen a MEN'S NIGHT where we can get in for free and not pay for anything?
7. Divorce/Child Custody: Men always get the short end of the stick on this one...file for divorce, it's going to be the man's fault 9 times out of 10 (whether it is truly or not) - if you have kids...the men can almost always kiss them goodby unless the mother is a convicted murderer or something.
8. Cops: Women just have to flash a little cleavage and can get out of tickets...what are we gonna flash? We only got one thing and if that comes out, we're in more trouble than we were to begin with.
9. Sexual harassment: A man makes a move on a woman, he is likely to get maced and arrested...if a woman does it, she is just being flirtatious and aggressive Nobody believes a man in these situations.
10. Rape: men can be collared for rape without even trying. All a woman has to do is accuse him of rape, and he is as good as guilty.
11. Emotions: women can show their emotions all they want, we have to bottle ours up because we are MEN!!! Sometimes that sucks too!

This is just a start...I'm sure if I thought about it more, I could come up with a lot more.

I think I've made my case very well though.

Answer 6

For sure the Guys; because we have to endure, and tolerate all the reasons and issues that the Girls replying to this question have come up with and then some !!!

Answer 7

girls
1. as babies they r less desired for than males
2.they grow up with with resrictions
3. menstruation
4.waxing
5 threading
6.dietin n givin up on that piece of chocolate bar
7.it pains the first time they have sex
8 have 2 carry a baby
9 breastfeed
10 change diapers(more often than men)
11. house chores are their responsibility(by default)
12. to prove that they have equal potential 2 men they have 2 work n earn n handle everythin
13.all the above can be quite stressful n v cant even go for a long walk alone by the beach all night for lettin off the steam coz v r busy fussin over chipped nails...gimme a break!!

Answer 8

i had this debate with a guy friend of mine who seems to always be right..

guys have it worse

his reason- whenever girls whine or complain (esp if u guys are together).. u whine & complain to the guy who has to hear it and has to sit through the commotion and your PMS days and throughout your pregnancy and all that other ish.

as far as the shaving aspect- he said its not REQUIRED of girls to shave, but it's always done cuz it's their CHOICE.

as far as makeup and spending time to look decent- he said guys can still look good in a half hour where it takes girls 2 hours and then the guy has to wait with her father down in the living room.

those were the biggies that were mentioned.

Answer 9

Girls have it worse, with the unstoppable monthly emotional apocalypse. They are still treated as second class citizens in many cultures (the man 'takes' a wife, a woman is 'given away' by her father) The most popular form of birth control involves tampering with the chemistry of the womans body!
If us men could give birth, there would be plenty of room on this planet.
My great grandma raised 7 kids through the rationing years whilst grt grandad fought the Fascists in WW2, I think I'd rather be dodging bullets than be faced with 7 screaming kids!
It was my mums birthday yesterday, love you mum! and am working to one day make you very proud. Happy birthday mum!

Answer 10

Women- 1. When people get pregnant both parents want a boy. 2. The majority of women say that most of their friends are men. 3. Most men say most their friends are men. 4. The top reason men choose a women is looks. Most men feel that women's looks peak at 19.