it seems like my whole life is falling apart and i can't do anything right. im so depressed and lonely now and its my fault but i cant seem to find the strength to change the way i am. my grades have been so bad and im always fighting with my parents. ive lost touch with all my friends. my bf doesnt love me the way he used to. i really have no idea where to go from here. i really dont.
2007-08-15 07:36:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
You are suffering from severe depression, and you need medical treatment for it first, then psychological treatment with a qualified therapist.
Please go to your parents about this. Depression is a physical problem with the neurotransmitters in the brain. If you feel you can't approach your parents, see your guidance counselor at school, or the school nurse. You don't have to feel this way; it is treatable.
2007-08-15 07:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by holey moley 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The saying is "Let go and let God".
Which means, just stop! Don't worry over the small stuff and don't sweat the big stuff. You are thinking too hard on all your social "requirements" your family and friends have put on you. Just Stop. Sit in the middle of a room that you can lock the door. Zone out in a sense. No TV or radio. Quiet. Don't think of anything for a while. You seem as though you are too stressed and you think if you stop one thing that everything will fall apart so you keep going and going and going.
Priorities first, I feel as though you have lost you ability to put things in order. Don't argue just walk away from your parents when they start badgering you over little stuff. I feel you are feeling like your smothered like can't find the breathing space you need. I feel that you are looking towards your boyfriend for comfort but he is feeling left behind sometimes and he is busy too. Like I said before, just stop. Take a mini vacation from everyone and everything. If you can, rent a hotel room for a couple of days and recharge your positive energy. No contact with the outside world for a while. You need to take of you first because if you don't how are you going to take care of anything else. Break away for a moment then hook up with your friends again. I believe you had a friend that was like a best friend sort of like a sister to you. This is the person you need to touch base with first after you take your break. She may have some answers for you. Peace be with you.
2007-08-15 14:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Karma of the Poodle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a psychic to believe in yourself. It sounds more like you have low self esteem. Look back at what you have done before this bought of depression and see if you can fix the problem that is bothering you right now. If no problem exists then you might want to consult your doctor about possibly being depressed. This is curable and might be a mild enough form that a good psychiatrist is all you need. Alternatively if you still need a psychic, you might try to find a Wiccian Coven who might be able to help.
Peace and Blessed Be
:-)
2007-08-15 15:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by jerrigon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a psychic to answer this question <33
-Just think of all the positive things about yourself and your life.
-Talk to your parents about what's bothering you.
-Patch things up with your boyfriend too. Have a nice talk about how you liked him when he [..........]
-Plan more together time with your friends
If this doesn't work, talk to a counselor and see if they can help you. Good luck! I'm sure you'll pull through!! <33
2007-08-15 14:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up every morning, look yourself in the mirror and say "I like you, You are a good person."
Go to bed every night and pray to whatever God/s you belive in, to grant you serenity when you wake.
"YOU" are the only person in control of "you.! You make your own happiness or sadness.
It is up to YOU to make up your mind to MAKE tomorrow a BETTER day than today.
We all have times when life seems to kick our butts...the kicker is that NO-ONE else is going to change that but YOU!
Your grades as slipping because you "know" you have to spend "more" time studying...so? STUDY.
Friends are leaving you because of your attitude you carry about yourself.
The thing is that YOU must get up off your butt and DO something to change the way things are going.
It does not take psychic abilities to figure that one out (though I do have them).
Simply put...stop wollowing in self pity...stop arguing with your parents and listen to them for a change and get your butt out the door and go "BE" with your friends.
2007-08-15 14:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by mom tree 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You have to look in side of yourself and try to figure out where this anger is coming from...Question what sort of dreams have you been having lately.. Do you hear something whispering into one of you ears.... Have you had somethings that have been moved in your room... For you are describing some form of a paranormal visitations..... Do you get angry rather quickly then it goes away sometime as soon as it starts....... Please e-mail me your response at marks4460@mypacks.net........................................
2007-08-15 22:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Good Luck
2007-08-15 14:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by It's just D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the mistakes that you made and try to make things right...
2007-08-15 14:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by fa$hion_guru 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am seeing you jump off a cliff.....whoops that is just my wish.
2007-08-15 15:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would like to help but am using all my energies to find the lottery numbers for tonight.
2007-08-15 14:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋