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we've had some fights. Why does he say one more chance and thats it? does he mean it? does he just try to threaten me?

2007-08-15 07:11:03 · 19 answers · asked by salvina730 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

Well i really didnt do anything, just little things i do he dont like, like being rude to others sometimes not trying to help out when i do help out all the time. small stuff.

2007-08-15 07:18:42 · update #1

Because i getting fed up with his stuff he does thats whats getting me mad and then when i get pissed out he gets mad that im pissed off and thats when he tells me that he will give me one more chance when he is just fed up

2007-08-15 07:25:25 · update #2

Why is he trying to threaten me? for what reason? to get to where? what does he need?

2007-08-15 07:30:20 · update #3

19 answers

You need to dump the arrogant bastard. Unless you're married to him, then get marriage counseling.

He's threatening you like you're below him. You're just as equal as him. He's making it seem like you aren't as good as him and HE'LL leave YOU. And when he said "You have one more chance..." You should have packed your bags and left. No man has the right to degrade his partner

He's lucky to have married you and you shouldn't be put below him, no matter what.

Do whatever you did to make him say that and be like "AHAHA! Peace, sucka!" and leave.

2007-08-15 07:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

one more chance.... for just little things? Hmmmmm There is always another side to the story. But if this is true, then seems liek he has to have the last word and thats a control issue.

2007-08-15 07:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Either way this is something that bothers him. Fighting is seldom ever an answer and usually makes those involved look childish and foolish. Maybe he just feels he needs some one a little more mature.

2007-08-15 07:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Steven E 2 · 0 0

yeah its a threat plain and simple. but why not try to change for the better? maybe he's trying to point it out. can you not do the things you used to do when you think it will make him feel good too and on your part there's no argument? if you think you can do that, why not try it so you dont need to find out the hard way?

2007-08-15 07:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by johnmonroe 2 · 0 0

I wouldn't care either way... If he's giving you "one more chance", he obviously doesn't love you enough to try to work through things and you shouldn't want to be with a guy like that anyway.

He's got issues.

2007-08-15 07:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1 0

Sweet Pea you left the part out why he is giving you one more chance. Good luck!

2007-08-15 07:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by b n real 4 · 0 0

Only you can tell. Does he have a history of backing up what he says? Or Does he make empty threats often?

2007-08-15 07:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0 0

He's trying to threaten you. He's playing mind games. Is he a controller too?

2007-08-15 07:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by irisheyeslas 3 · 0 1

You should love him and thank him for the extra chance. You probably dont really deserve it.

2007-08-15 07:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by averstar23 2 · 1 0

Hes probably just getting TIRED of you doing whatever that is your doing...So STOP...I bet you would say the same to him if he was doing something u didnt want him to do....
P.S. It would help if we knew what it was you were doing.

2007-08-15 07:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by b 3 · 0 0

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