hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??
2007-08-15 05:58:30 · 10 answers · asked by georgia f 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
drop him, he is over possessive.
2007-08-15 06:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to you don't be decieved. He knew where he was going before he got drunk. And if he really wanted you back why did he have wait to see you accidentally in a bar? One thing about men is that we can sometimes have huge egos. Some men when they break up with their girlfriends. They want the girlfriend to feel crushed and never heal, so he will always have some kind of sway over her. His reaction to you when he saw you with the other guy was just part of his ego wanting to hold sway over you and control. Sorry.
2007-08-15 13:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by super saiyan 3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um.. nothing. You are just as confused as he is right now.. that seems pretty obvious.. but instead of dealing with your confusion you want to focus on his... let him deal with his own.. and you deal with your own... it's obviously still too soon and you BOTH still have some feelings for one another. Only reason he called the next day? He knew he messed up by leaving that message and was embarrassed and trying to lessen the damage done... so don't get hung up on "What does he want from me" ... that's a cop out from your own confusion on what you felt when you saw him with that other girl.
2007-08-15 13:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by pip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult but here goes. When your boyfriend noticed you with another man, you became more enticing to him. We want what someone else has or we want what we can't have. my guess is that your boyfriends wish to get back with you is not a legitimate one. Once someone breaks up it becomes much easier to do it the second or third time. One question to ask yourself is, what do I want, and what is in my best interest out of all this.
2007-08-15 13:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by belo4000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he wants your undivided attention. (And he may also want the other woman's undivided attention, too...)
I've been there, after relationships broke up. Happened to me twice -- once was my break; another was hers. Both times took awhile for me to recover. Basically, I think you have to decide where to make your path in life -- rather than let the path lead you.
Good luck.
2007-08-15 13:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it too. Forget about him. Sounds like he has a bit of maturing to do.
2007-08-15 13:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by winton_holt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see.........I'm a girl.........if that happened to ME I would keep playing hard to get.
It sounds like you and your "ex" are still young so yeah, there is a lot of growing up to do.
Sounds like he just wants to get laid. Not to be in a serious relationship.
2007-08-15 13:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by StarGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seeing you with other guys suddenly made you desirable again.
Question is do you want him back, if not then just ignore him.
2007-08-15 13:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kainoa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thinck u shoud go and tell him what u saw him with A other girl
2007-08-15 13:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by Boxingprince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booty call.
2007-08-15 13:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋